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  • Harvest in a Drought

    Attempting to Harvest in a Drought

    Harvest in a Drought

    I, Lita, Goddess of Growth, reflect on harvesting in the drought. In this Empowerment Diaries® archive, I discuss surviving Uranus-Pluto disruption, reality of “aging” through transition, and shifting from survival to intentional planting for 2026.

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth (00:00)
    So hello again, Lita goddess of growth here. I was actually quite excited about a week ago as I acknowledged that my self-imposed brand name, Lita, goddess of growth has been acknowledged by AI on Google. This is part of my visibility platform and process.

    And I encourage you to do the same if you’re someone that’s out there hoping to coach or promote your business, your service. We are in the age of social media, connecting with others online. How else will people get to know us? Today, we’re looking into harvesting in the drought, planting seeds for new beginnings. And you know,

    When is it that we go around and collect the flowers, the fruits, the vegetables? At what point do we harvest? Especially if we don’t actually know that we’re in a drought. And my podcasts so far are very self-absorbed. They’re very much about myself as I introduce myself. I really would like at some point for others to come forward and communicate and it would be lovely to hear

    your story and see how your story has helped with your very own transformation. The last podcast I spoke about my Pluto Square, Pluto transit for those that read astrology you’ll understand for those that do not study astrology let’s just say my life went through a harsh transformation. Some might reflect and think not so harsh but for me

    being in it. At this moment I feel really aged. I feel as if the wind has been almost taken out of me. I’ve definitely aged over the last few weeks and I don’t mean in number.

    and I was having a conversation and in that conversation I had an aha moment as you do and I understood fully what it means to try to harvest whilst actually you’re in a drought. I was trying to get things out of a time where the universe was actually encouraging me to stop, stand still, take a seat back.

    I definitely had to do enough to keep moving. I definitely believed that life would not have come to me had I decided to just stay in bed whilst things were progressing to and through me. This was my lesson, this was my life lesson. Only I could go through it.

    But in going through it, the challenges came, the hopes, the dreams. What does faith really mean to you? Does faith only work when things go your way? That was one of the questions throughout the transit. Can I accept that the good, the bad, the indifferent all happen collectively to create the lives that we are creating on a day-to-day basis?

    and to take ownership of it all. All.

    Sometimes just like a plant pot sometimes we’re planting intentional seeds and it’s not until the spring that we see what was up beneath. I’ve had many a plant plot put seeds in had an idea as to what I was expecting for the spring for there to be a completely different bloom plant sprout that has come out to what I’ve planted.

    You know, soil, if you’re a planter, soil has many seeds within, even if they sterilise the soil, as I know some companies have said they do, you often find different things growing at different times of the year. And that’s a good analogy of life. There are things beneath the surface that we may not have personally intentionally placed. We’re talking about

    our ancestry, our lineage, our cells, our DNA, the agreement that we made before we came here with whoever we made it as we got here. I truly believe there are souls that came through this dark period that I’ve been through to come and interject some light and they disappeared. People coming in to give me loans, people coming to give me criticism, to give me advice and then step back.

    whatever it was, this was the time and season that I was to go through.

    illnesses have taken over my nearest and dearest. So they were the ones that would be there to champion a cause, give me time to talk through any changes I was going through. They were not available because they were dealing with their illness. It wasn’t selfishness. This was a necessity. They had to focus on their health and their health has not got better. There’s been relief in some areas. Some have gone further in a more of a decline.

    So my support system…

    Yeah, has gone.

    I’ve learned to be encouraged to go back to myself.

    There’s so much energy trying to harvest in a season of drought and if you’re like me that feeds off what the energy from others are is that’s coming around us.

    The expectation, why aren’t you doing? Why are you doing? And knowing that you’ve got people around you that have no clue, as much as they believe in a good or have faith or what have you for some reason, people have no clue that often what we’re going through is connected to such things so much bigger than what we see. Why is that?

    In fact, when we’re giving guidance and support, we do need to tap in and say, you know what? I get it. You’re going through X, Y, Z. But what’s the bigger picture? I love reading astrologers and so when they make comments about transits and what’s happening with this and what’s happening with that. I’m no astrologer. I’ve been reading astrology for years, but I’m not an astrologer. What I like to do is get the message within the

    the transit, the context, the message, what is it telling you?

    I’m quite good at that. Much better at doing it for others than myself because whilst I’m looking at myself I’ve got a vested interest and I do have a habit of trying to dismiss the bad things and projecting the good things and then wondering why the other happened and this didn’t happen and so but for others I can see the picture what it’s what it’s telling me harvesting in a drought how many times have you done that? Tried to extract

    from a situation where the things that you need to extract just aren’t ready. Like the child that is forced to grow up early, wash, cook, clean, iron, be the mother of the house, so to speak. You’re expecting her to have wise decisions and an awareness and knowing because you’ve trained her to do the house.

    but actually she’s not had the life experience to match the physical doing.

    that’s how we see a plant pot. The plant pot has so much nutrients you know even the soil is dark you can’t see through it you don’t know what is in it but taking a step back you’re able to view the plants as they sprout the flowers as they sprout the buds coming through.

    But we need to know the difference between a planting season, when is it to put our seeds and our seeds are always being planted mind you, even in the harvest. Every day we’re planting a seed that will be harvested at some point in the future, in our tomorrow. Intentional planting versus unintentional planting.

    But we all have periods in our life where we come across and are encouraged and forced through a drought.

    if we reflect, think for me, it’s happened more than once in my life, I think. Would I say this has been the worst one? Different scenarios, different environment. You know, when I was younger, I moved around a lot. I didn’t have a mortgage. I didn’t have a home to call my own.

    the picture has changed the scenario is different this time the survival instincts was really prominent and to hear the same old feedback you’re not doing enough you should do this you should do that if I was you I would do this I love it when people tell you what they’re going they would do if they were in your case which they’ve never been in it’s an interesting phenomenon the drought

    And I don’t know what it is why we all forget the droughts in our life. Regardless of how wealthy you might be, there’s always been some level of drought. There’s been some reckoning. But for some reason we don’t have that grace or empathy for others when they’re going through their time. And it’s a nice thing to be around people that’s in different seasons. How else do you have that contrast? If we were in a zone,

    war for example would you want to see everybody in a panic or would you like to have a mix of people some people calm some people reflective like you need that variety so that you can always shift your mood shift your focus because ultimately we want to be balanced not too high not too low just Zen

    This is Lea Tahir, goddess of growth, I was speaking about Pluto square, Pluto, which I’ve been through, my midlife crisis and how it took energy and youth away from me. I’m aged now. I can feel it physically, get the hot flushes. I wear wigs now as well, and they can be really hot. I never knew they could be as hot as they are.

    strange things that I knew

    And as much as we think about droughts and season, it’s about acknowledging time because time is not just about our age, our solar returns, our progressions, our perfection years, or the day as we sit in on a day-to-day basis. Time and season is also about the collective, what we’re going on, what’s going on environmentally, politically, globally.

    Right?

    seasonality and acknowledging that there’s a spiritual significance throughout it all, like how much of it has already happened, was already destined to happen.

    So I do believe it was pre-written but has it all happened before? Have I done this before? Or is this all new? Am I creating this new? Is this a new, new, new, new, new experience?

    And then we have real life kicking in as I feel the heat of my body and I have to cool myself with water with ice to remind me I’m a physical body, I’m in the present. This is the reality that I’m living. Financial pressure. How much of it can we change? And that’s another thing because whilst I was going through the Pluto, Square Pluto, it was almost like…

    I wanted everything to change but my home and I spoke in the last podcast about coming towards the end of the transit and then all of a sudden all I want to do is change my home.

    Not that there’s anything wrong with my home per se, but I just feel quite enclosed here now. I need more space.

    Financial droughts, emotional droughts.

    I feel as if my drought was more financial than emotional. But then the opportunity to interact with others, to connect with each other and others on an emotional level, as outside of social media was sparse. Unless of course it involved an interaction.

    where I was, you know, asking for a loan or so. I think that was the most emotion that I came across towards the end of the transit.

    People have been very distant.

    distant maybe because part of it is questioning why at my right age I’m going through difficulty at this stage of life but also distant because within my collective lots of people are having health issues people have started to pass away more frequently so the focus has shifted it’s not about the

    me supports you support that we had before life has changed priorities have changed.

    Just like my birthday of last year, there was no big celebration. Everyone seemed to be celebrating in a space where I was really impoverished. I found I had lost some finance. I wasn’t able to do things as I would have liked to have done. In fact, I didn’t plan a big 50th bash. It just wasn’t a priority for me. So I found myself in an environment where…

    everyone was celebrating but me. I pacified myself by spending the day baking a cake but the point of my story is that actually sometimes we are with others that are in different realities and as I’ve gotten to this stage of life I now question this party, the reason for a party if actually my life is not balanced, it’s not right.

    In the old days if I didn’t have I could definitely muster up an outfit, a little bit of money and be present. You would look glamorous and no one would know what you had in your fridge, in your cupboard. But today priorities have shifted, life has changed. If I’m not okay at home I don’t feel comfortable leaving to go and party anywhere else. I’m still celebrating those who need to be celebrated but in my own way.

    but I must say the financial limitations that I’ve gone through, I can’t do them anymore. I’m really exhausted and I do know that life has to shift. I need to feel a value in the work that I do. No more can I do work for free for no return.

    And I question if, as I’m not having children, husband and so, the dream of a house, is it really something to hold onto? I did it because I thought I was going to have a family of my own. I didn’t have any trust that I would meet a man that was going to house, clothe and feed me. That wasn’t my life story. And somehow, by this second property, I did it again on my own.

    So now what is it that I’m working towards? It’s an interesting place to be in. Financial limitations has made me consider the quality of my life and the reasons for life as I’m living it. There is uncertainty. No idea really what I’m working towards because I’ve lived…

    a life of survival so long and there has been a lot of time just surviving. I’m really tired of just surviving and I’m really tired of pretending and when I say pretending showing up to places and being made to feel that I should have when I don’t have. I’ve done it so many times before, gone on a holiday, used a credit card,

    come back and spent a year or so paying it off tired of it.

    no more will I allow anyone else’s frustration that I don’t have to determine how much I will have to risk on in the future. Now is the time to clear out and start again. New furniture, new environment, new decor, something needs to change. I don’t know what it will be, but something needs to change.

    no more false promises, no more pretending. And when I say no pretending, gosh, I haven’t had a relationship in such a long time. And I cannot remember a relationship in a very long time where I didn’t have to squint my eyes or make extra allowances just for the sake of having a relationship. And that would be the truth.

    I’m in a different space, I’m older now and I am thinking well okay how am I living my last quarter, who knows how long I will be here, surely there must be quality in life, it’s not so much about quantity because for me there’s been decades I would say yeah had I known if I did of would I, could I, should I, that kind of situation.

    I’m here in my home. I really hope that spirit doesn’t think I’m being ungrateful, but it’s been a place of incubation, a sanctuary, a place for the release of my old self. And the financial limitations has meant I have had to come face to face with myself. There was no get out clause. This was my space and my space, but this was my space. A feeling of being stuck.

    and only recently did I acknowledge it as the season of drought. I thought it was a season of planting seeds and ploughing and waiting for things to happen. Not realising that yeah, yeah you were planting but it wasn’t ready, there wasn’t time now for your things to manifest.

    no children. I thought by now at least one child, two children max. Our husband.

    and the meaning what does my life mean as a woman what does that mean now questions no answers the coaching that’s the only thing that gives me joy and hope but even the way it’s delivered has changed everything has changed

    You know, we started off with my hypnotherapy base, hypnoanalysis, emotional freedom techniques, alternative therapy. And then I find myself this year being encouraged to coach, but coach based on what people want and need. So people want and need in this time of economic crisis, so to speak. They want a way to monetize, to make money, to grow, to get visibility.

    How do we match that with my ideas of transformation? Because I understand that actually for money to flow through my life, I need to transfer my ideas, my self-concept. It starts from within. So now I have to find a way to match what I know from my soul and really transform it in my life and the life of others.

    And we start with tools on a platform. We start with ideas of community, of connection. Ideas.

    And with those ideas we tap into purpose, we try to find meaning. But they’re only as good as those that come forward to connect the dots with us, participate in the transformation on offer.

    And that’s where after so many years, 2022 to just the end of July 2025, working towards what I thought I was working on my fully self-employed business where I wouldn’t have to do any work for anyone else, just myself.

    I sit and wonder how much of it was a dream and how much of it was actually…

    planting seeds to create a reality. There’s definitely a disconnect between the time and resources I’ve spent building, building, building to come to the end and to question well what do I have here. I closed my creator account on TikTok just a few days ago. It’s got 30 days to close down fully. I should have done it ages ago. Should have, would have, could have.

    They suppressed that account almost from day one when I opened it. I’m glad I had it because I got to see the other side. Only my posts were suppressed most of the time.

    I suppose I needed to go through it because I needed to be in a position as to when I coach others for us to understand fully, okay, well, we can transform. We can acknowledge what it is that we want to change and make better and so, but understand in life, there’s what we can do and what is there to be done. I’ve had this house, I’ve got two spare rooms.

    I have had it on advert for a very long time. I’ve learned that in this life we can have resources and still not make money. I remember watching an old war movie and found that prisoners were released from jail and they were brought to a piece of land that had lots of gold and trinkets that were stolen from the houses.

    and it was intriguing because these people were brought there they had all these jewels luxuries household goods that were valuable but the simple thing of having things like water and food was not there so those things that were so valuable were worthless in the time of need

    And those are the things that one reflects upon when they’ve left a period of drought. Like what is it that we’re taking forward of value actually? What are we left with? And even at this end, the end of a drought, you come forward and you question the things that we find in our homes around us.

    that we collected, there was a time that we really wanted those things. There was a purpose for them. And then one day you look around and there are things that you haven’t used in such a long time, things that you’ve not seen for years locked in a cellar, in a loft somewhere, in a shed somewhere. They were really important at one time and then…

    All of a sudden years go by you’ve not seen them and you don’t even remember that you have them.

    season of harvest.

    Biblically they say for everything there is a time and a season, do they not? Is it Corinthians 13? They talk about when I was a child, I behaved as a child and…

    We need to teach children, I think, seasons. And to teach children that actually the idea that we are all in this world but in different worlds, this is a real and true concept. In one classroom, we’ve got children with different histories, genetically, spiritually, and in different seasons of life. And we need to understand that contrast from childhood.

    because that will help us greatly in adult food. The time to sow, the time to eat.

    but if you’re anything like me maybe you would be told anyway and still try to push the boundary find out if it’s true test it out wait till the middle the end of the season before you finally ignore it hold on a minute this is actually true I should have trusted this is what’s going on this is the season that I’m in

    If you’re spiritually aware, I doubt you need astrology actually because I can tell you there is a feeling, there is some kind of connection, it’s like a almost inner knowing. I use astrology just to, I suppose, evidence what I’m feeling, what’s going on and the patterns I find easier to look at in others than myself because I have a vested interest in how things

    how I want things to play out in my life.

    But if there’s anything that I’ve learnt from 22 to 25 end of July, there is patience. patience doesn’t mean denial or pretending everything is okay. But patience could actually be taking some time out in the day to just spend some moments breathing, focusing, getting centered.

    ⁓ just breathing.

    and I know it’s not easy because I too still want to know okay what’s next, why, what’s going on. I feel disappointment in the time that I let pass thinking that things will work out in the end and they do work out in the end but I’ve understood now that not necessarily in the way that we’d like.

    when they tell you it’s all going to be alright yeah it’s all going to be alright but maybe not necessarily in the way that you envisage even that is okay isn’t it this life is a short one we’ve all come for a contracted period of time and now I understand probably more emphasis needs to be on that knowledge the beginning the end

    so that the quality is really focused, we focus on it in between what people have to say and you know, they’re just mirrors coming in to us, remind us to get back on path on purpose. But building the quality in the in between the beginning, the end is really so important.

    I’m ready to move on but I find myself trapped.

    I find myself trapped in the survival, the survival mode that I’ve been in really for a lifetime and I understand that I am resilient, I am a fighter, I’ve put myself through embarrassing situations just to keep my home.

    and now I am ready I’m ready to move on I don’t know what moving on looks like

    I don’t know how it will be with little to no resources. Do I need to survive some more? Put in more hours? Like what do I need to do to make it happen? I really don’t know. But I must admit over the last two weeks there’s a part of me that’s just surrendered. I’m just like actually rather than continuing trying to build.

    you know this is the time to start cleaning out and there’s been many a day when I’ve just wanted to just cut things out, advertise sofas, like just get things gone, like I have nothing to replace them but I just want them out. How ungrateful is that right? It’s non-intentional, I’m just done, I’ve done my time, I’ve done it now, it’s like now it’s time to move forward.

    So there is a surrender accompanied by uncertainty.

    and I know that the full surrender and acknowledgement of how I feel because feeling what we feel is really important. This is not about me asking for permission to feel, no. This is me acknowledging what I feel because I understand my feelings are like the litmus tests. They’re the barometer, the barometer, the thermometer to tell me okay, where you are right now, something needs to change.

    surrendering is okay understanding that I can only control what can I control

    my response to ever-changing circumstances on an every moment and day-by-day basis. But in understanding that, I understand that with the shift, I am now open and ready for new possibilities, new opportunities, and I also understand that there are opportunities that will come my way that aren’t just not for me. How about that?

    so many things it’s like going into the cupboard and deciding to bake a cake I love this analogy when you go to bake a cake you go to the cupboard there’s a set list of ingredients for your in your recipe you’re not going to go to the cupboard and put everything from the cupboard into the cake and that’s life so it’s about being open and then when the opportunities and possibilities come my way being as centered as possible so that I know

    okay this feels right this is for me ⁓ no this probably is not the one for me right now and the intention is to raise my energy enough that actually the more I progress the opportunities that come are much more in alignment to my destiny and purpose so it’s not just a question of if they are suitable for me it’s a case of okay when do I get started

    Are you in what’s called a liminal space my darlings? Are you like me that’s just at the end at the cusp you’ve not left you’ve just left that dark space just at the end you can see the light but you’ve not quite stepped over into that chapter.

    I do feel that there is a time and a space that I need to take and put aside for mourning. I’ve said to myself if I can and I live to see it I’d love to travel, take myself away and really just put this last chapter to bed. I’ve not had a chance to really mourn the dream of a life as to what it could be.

    but that’s okay. I plod on.

    So if you are in the in-between stage

    the living little space similar to my own do tap in and let me know how it’s going for you I know for myself there are times when I feel hopeful not quite excited I go into a bit of a dream world to what could be what might be if things were different or if I did this or you know that’s a different way

    I’m thankful that the drought has gone. I’m thankful that the new season has begun. And I understand there’s just some weeds that need to be taken and cut away. I understand all of that. I am looking forward to the summer to come on this season where I can bask in the glory.

    flowers and everything that has manifested. Until then, I understand I need to respect the spaces that I’m in, the time, the place, because otherwise what tends to happen, I try to continually skip past the lessons of life. We know that that doesn’t happen, right? And in wanting to skip past it, I think in a way it makes it harder.

    but we’re using lemons and we’re making lemonade and we’re not going to continue sucking, sucking, sucking the lemon. I do love a lemon though. Admittedly, I do love a lemon.

    So I do encourage you to connect. This is a podcast where we can build community and I would love to build community. If you are listening, please pass this on to others. If you’d like to support my presence, we’ve got ways to do so at the end of the podcast, but more so than anything, I would love for listeners to really connect with me if you have any questions, any suggestions.

    if you’d like to open up communication on this space I’d love you to do so.

    And in the meantime I invite you my listeners to reflect on your own season. What season are you in right now? What season have you been through? Are you in a season of harvesting? Are you in a season of sewing? Do you know the difference?

    Thank you so much for being here. You’ve been a flea to our goddess of growth. I look forward to seeing your comments at the end of this podcast.

    Summary

    Lita, Goddess of Growth, shares her journey of personal transformation and resilience during challenging times. She discusses the concept of ‘harvesting in the drought,’ reflecting on the importance of patience, self-awareness, and the lessons learned from life’s trials. Lita encourages listeners to embrace their own seasons of growth and transformation, while also acknowledging the spiritual and emotional aspects of their journeys.

    Keywords

    personal growth, resilience, transformation, spirituality, self-awareness

    Takeaways

    • Embrace the season of drought as a time for growth.
    • Patience is key to personal transformation.
    • Self-awareness leads to deeper understanding.
    • Spirituality plays a role in personal growth.
    • Life’s challenges offer valuable lessons.
    • Community and connection are vital.
    • Financial and emotional droughts teach resilience.
    • Transformation requires embracing change.
    • Reflect on personal seasons for growth.
    • Harvesting requires understanding timing.

    Title Options

    • Harvesting in the Drought
    • Embracing Life’s Seasons
    • Growth Amidst Challenges
    • The Power of Patience
    • Spiritual Growth Journey
    • Resilience in Tough Times
    • Transformative Life Lessons
    • Navigating Personal Seasons
    • Embracing Change and Growth
    • Finding Strength in Adversity

    Sound bites

    • “Harvesting in the drought.”
    • “Patience is key to growth.”
    • “Embrace your personal seasons.”
    • “Spirituality fuels transformation.”
    • “Challenges teach resilience.”
    • “Connect with your community.”
    • “Reflect on life’s lessons.”
    • “Timing is everything in growth.”
    • “Transformation requires change.”
    • “Find strength in adversity.”

    Chapters

    • 00:00:00 Introduction to Personal Growth
    • 00:00:00 Understanding Seasons of Life
    • 00:00:00 Spiritual and Emotional Insights
    • 00:00:00 Lessons from Life’s Challenges
    • 00:00:00 Embracing Change and Transformation

    Empowerment Diaries: Harvesting in the Drought and the Liminal Space

    I am reflecting on a recent milestone: Lita, Goddess of Growth is now acknowledged by AI on Google. This is a key marker in my visibility process. However, as I celebrate this digital architecture, I am also acknowledging the physical and soul-deep fatigue of last few years. I feel aged—not by number, but by weight of a long, harsh transformation.

    I have spent too much energy trying to harvest whilst in a drought. I was trying to extract results from a season where universe was actually encouraging me to stop and sit back. I have learned that faith is not just for when things go my way; it is for taking ownership of entire journey—good, bad, and indifferent.

    Seasons and Seeds: Key Messages & Chapters

    • [00:00] Digital Acknowledgement: I celebrate my brand being recognised by AI. Visibility is essential for coaching and legacy, yet I remain grounded in reality of my story.
    • [10:00] The Illusion of Harvest: I discuss the “aha moment” of trying to harvest during drought. I was pushing for growth when I should have been standing still.
    • [20:00] Soil and Ancestry: I use the analogy of a plant pot. Even sterilized soil contains seeds we did not intentionally plant—DNA, lineage, and pre-written agreements.
    • [30:00] Support Systems and Silence: I reflect on how illness affected my nearest and dearest, removing my external support and forcing me back to self-reliance.
    • [45:00] From House to Home: I address shift in my focus. After years of fighting to keep my home, I now feel an urge for movement. My home has been a sanctuary, but perhaps it is now a container I have outgrown.
    • [01:05:00] The Liminal Space: I describe being at the cusp—just leaving dark space, seeing light, but not yet stepping into next chapter. This is a time for mourning dreams that didn’t manifest and surrendering to uncertainty.

    My Core Truth

    “I am resilient; I am a fighter. I have put myself through embarrassing situations just to keep my home, but now I am ready to move on. Surrendering is not giving up; it is acknowledging that I can only control my response to ever-changing circumstances. I am making lemonade, and I am done sucking on lemons.”

    Brand Integrity Note

    This episode bridges the gap between my “Survival” era and my path to my very own “Sovereign” era. It explains the physical toll of 2025 while highlighting my focus on mastering Digital Architecture (the AI acknowledgement).

    Open for Collaboration

    Empowerment Curator & Strategist

    I curate tools, brands, and visions that align with **House of Sovren™**. Please note that this platform features affiliate partnerships; I only champion services that have stood test of my own **Season of Growth**.

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  • Pluto and Uranus the great destruction and clean up

    Pluto, Uranus

    Empowerment Diaries®: Pluto, Uranus Disruption and the Cleanup

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth (00:01)
    goddess of growth I am here to give my check-in my update I hope you are with me I hope you’re good and this is me at the end of a very very very long transit as you may know I do read on astrology I read it I haven’t taken it as seriously as I

    should have or could have on occasion

    Pluto Square Pluto, some would call it their midlife crisis, started to affect me from the end of 2022 until the end of July 2025. And just before the end, I started to feel the shift, the difference. However, there is a sense of mourning.

    There is a sense of fatigue.

    I spent from 2022 until the very last moment doing my best to fight against circumstances, bring back finances that had disappeared, connect with connections that had disappeared. Friends, family, jobs, career, everything just

    seemed so distant, so far away as I sat struggling, working many hours off most every day, trying to at least recoup and regain the stability I thought I had before 22, 23, 24 and early 25 kicked in. All the time

    Having in mind I mustn’t lose my home, I must keep my home. That’s the only thing really that keeps me moving forward because I have had a life of moving from place to place, job to job.

    And prior to moving to this house in 2020, I was fortunate to purchase my first apartment and that was the very first place of stability that I had from leaving my parental home at the age of 17. So my apartment was my first purchase and I was able to stay there 11 years and three months.

    I’ve aged.

    I’ve definitely aged and it seems to have happened within the last few weeks and months, not years for sure. It’s almost as if the hope, the optimism, everything just came crashing down. But not with total despair. There’s a sense of faith, a sense of resolution.

    you know, a better understanding that there’s more to life than what I see. There’s been lots of losses, dreams I’ve had and held onto as to the reasons why I should persevere and keep on working have disappeared.

    And now I attempt to carve a path so that at least the last quarter of my life is spent doing things I truly enjoy. Otherwise, what’s life for, right?

    no children, no husband. All the things I thought would be a natural aspect of my life.

    I am going through the aftermath of this Pluto Square Pluto transit and it came in troughs. There were times when I thought I’d beat it as things appeared to be moving for me and there were times when as I say things just disappeared.

    But I’m here, the transit has ended and now we have the time for cleanup. And interestingly, the cleanup has included me questioning whether this home that I’ve fought to stay in for so many years is the right space and base for myself. All of a sudden…

    The one thing that was keeping me focused and moving forward is the one thing that I now want to change. I don’t know if it’s just the furniture that needs changing, the decor.

    or a move. I have no idea how a move will happen because finances are so dire at the moment. But I know life has a habit of working itself out. The answers will come. I just know that the urge I feel to move, to start afresh a new chapter, that’s definitely something that I need to listen to.

    Pluto square, Pluto, who knew huh? I read it and like with all transits one never really knows what we’re going to go through until we actually go through it but having it to reflect on has been helpful. I did have assistance and guidance, people came into my life along the way to guide me and prompt me. Many didn’t have the best advice and guidance at all.

    It’s as if I was being reminded to go back to self, stop reaching outside, go inside. What’s your inside telling you? And my inside has been prompted me to try new things, to persevere and also to question when things aren’t working, to sit back and really observe the environments that I’m in.

    You see, I notice when I’m in a path of life where I feel it’s okay to live in fantasy. For sure, I will meet people that mirror fantasy back to me.

    But I am a Scorpio, rising sign Taurus. Most certainly eventually the truthful be something that comes to me. It might take a while as I stubbornly try to make things work even when the time to let go may have passed a long long long time ago.

    So I am in a reflective space. I could have come on a good while ago, but it’s been hard. It’s been tiresome. I’ve been attempting to incorporate new opportunities and get on with those whilst clearing up the old transit, the old chapter.

    Who knew? So yes, relationships have been challenged, ideas on life have been challenged, my dreams have been challenged. What remains? My ability to coach, my ability to connect, to empathise. And what remains is a greater wisdom and understanding that there are some things in life that are definitely pre-written.

    Our season is our season.

    and as I reflect on some of the losses there’s definitely been gains. I suppose the idea that I could lose my home given that the finances were so low kept me really focused and working beyond any type of…

    work I’ve done in the past. I’ve never worked so hard in my life. Early mornings, late evenings.

    Mind you, this last week I haven’t been on social media to post or live stream. It’s almost two weeks now that I stopped live streaming. There’s a lot of things I’ve learned and I understand I need to streamline. And there does come a time when I ask myself, you’ve put in all these hours, what is it you have to show for it?

    And these were questions I was being asked anyway, but I needed to see it for myself.

    It’s been a fight, it’s been a struggle.

    And even towards the end, find that systems in place are almost trying to clamp down on my voice. Thank goodness for podcasting. In fact, it was those very same systems that encouraged me to podcast. I joined TikTok initially with my business account.

    and I noticed there were a few shares that would be deleted as apparently they were not seen as appropriate. It took me nearly a year, probably not so long, to choose to open a different account, a creator account, so that I could have fun and be more, freer in talking about what I wanted to talk about. But the systems that be put some kind of multi-account flag on it,

    basically suppressed it from growing, stopped my purse from going out.

    I was alerted to it around last November, December, but I didn’t take it seriously because I was so much focused on what I wanted to do and how I wanted to proceed.

    Yeah, the journey continues. Taking on roles and responsibilities for money, that continues. Started something part-time last year and I thought I would be leaving it by now, making sure that I would be self-sufficient on a full-time, self-employed basis rather than dipping in and out as I do.

    And it turns out that the part-time became full-time, whilst also doing other things to make sure that my self-employed activity isn’t forgotten or left behind.

    April I started getting prompts on my for you page or for you feed how you call it on TikTok, guiding me to apply to become a TikTok creator network.

    It seemed like a great opportunity to continue my coaching and because I have been on the platform for a while and had my various experiences, I thought this would be a great opportunity to see what goes on behind the scenes and also to give my inputs and support to other creators that want to grow. I have had

    good experiences on the platform. I managed to get an ambassadorship, I managed to get affiliate programs, made any great income. However, this space is there to grow. And as much as I felt as if my own presence was being suppressed, I can see the opportunities with the right support.

    on and off the platform. I applied and within I think probably a week I was accepted into the role. I had three attempts to go for interviews which I could not make because of her commitments but I was able to be pushed through and the role became mine.

    and it’s only now I’m now fully understanding that such a role may actually mean the decision to limit or curtail or suppress my voice.

    I have had to sit with a lot of things observing the environment, the platform, the space to really try to understand how it is I would fit in, not just for the creators that I’m going to support to coach, but also for myself, what happens to my coaching practice, my podcast, the areas that I want to develop. But you know, in the

    traditional Pluto way. Sometimes we get these opportunities to really help us to transform. And my life is about transformation, transforming myself first and encouraging others to transform also. And I understand now in hindsight, there’s quite a few opportunities that have come my way over the last, from 2022 until now.

    that have come my way to encourage me to adjust my focus. So this Creator Network opportunity came. I’ve used my limited company to register to do it. And I’ve been sold a dream of building my own company and entity to support others to grow. And it’s all within a structure.

    And what’s nice about it is that one has access to the backstage of the company and they’re able to look at analytics to see how engaged audiences are. We understand with live streaming, we have the opportunity individually to build our own channels. The platform provides the space, the opportunity is for us to make the space our own.

    So we get that.

    What I didn’t factor in is that everything is still in development. So I’ve been showing up in spaces and not finding the right connections to build and grow. Spending time online intending on meeting people that I can support only to find that the wrong people ⁓ are sent to the space that I am in.

    live streaming.

    And what I’ve learned from that is that actually it’s my task to curate. ⁓

    followers, contacts, connections, clients, who knew?

    It’s my task to network and reach out, make myself available and visible so that people can connect with me too.

    And what the opportunity has brought to my attention is the need to have a entity beyond just a social media platform. Because each one comes with their rules and regulations right. And let’s not forget when I joined TikTok so many years ago now, 2023 I believe.

    I went on so that I could expand my connections, build my network so that I’d have more people getting to know me to refer me and my services onto others.

    The Creator Network opportunity really did feel as if it was the perfect opportunity. And notice I say it’s in past tense and I have been working to adapt it to my own trajectory, my own growth area, my vision of what support and coaching looks like.

    And even today I’ve asked questions as to how I am expected to show up and I still have a few questions left unanswered. expect to find out very soon because how the role was sold to me was that it would be one where I could increase my brand awareness, visibility and those of others.

    But at the moment it looks as if it might be the case of promoting what is going on on the platform. I don’t know. We’ll see.

    And if I think about it, it’s been like that across social media. Each and everyone has their rules. We have these algorithms that we’re supposed to post on to get acknowledged, to get seen. Visibility is key. And we find that we are simultaneously being clamped down on in terms of our authentic expression.

    They offer visibility, well that’s the promise isn’t it? Because we understand with visibility we can get the monetisation many of us want and not necessarily from the platform. We’ve got brand deals, we’ve got customers that will come to meet with us directly. There’s collaboration, there’s partnerships out there to be made. But not if anyone’s seeing you. If they’re not seeing you, the collaborations can’t happen.

    Coming.

    So, Pluto Square, Pluto took everything away and I spent the majority of that time following guidance. Be visible, be present on social media, that’s what you’ll need to do as your next step. What I didn’t understand was the time that I was in was not the time really that any form of visibility was going to help my growth and development.

    However, in being there, the opportunities that have come my way, they were able to…

    Yeah, take place.

    I think the time of drought, should we say, Pluto’s queer Pluto was a training ground to identify and see restrictions. I remember so many posts I created with people really happy with the posts I created. They resonated and they’d come onto my account and they’d like and comment and do all the things that you’re supposed to do to push posts.

    And more than one person, the very final one who I was telling, please stop, just don’t bother sharing the post, just leave it because it became apparent that actually if the platform doesn’t want to push your post, they will not push your post. And the very last person said to me, she doesn’t understand it. It’s evident that they’re not pushing the post.

    Yeah and you know this is life, this is what we’re taught in childhood isn’t it? It’s become apparent to me that my mother daughter relationship was really the training ground for what was going to happen next. Imagine being in situations whereby you have an entity that’s reminding you for your behaviour that doesn’t suit their environment.

    and then not long after giving you encouragement to take on a training program or an opportunity or whatever it is that comes your way. And that’s how it’s been that pull, push, pull, push, pull. It’s taken me a while to fully acknowledge what’s been going on. When you’re used to that cycle, it can be sometimes quite difficult to identify it. But once you see it,

    you see it and you can’t unsee it.

    having my voice clamped down on at a time when in my life this is the time for my life for me to be seen, for my voice to be heard.

    So we have a push and pull on power, on transformation, on a real dynamic for change. And now is my opportunity to acknowledge my inner power. Tap into it.

    getting ready to release it. I have no idea of the exact time it will be that I will be able to stand and be strong and present in the leadership opportunities I’m aware are destined for me. But for now, we’ve passed through the last few years addressing any ideas of having power.

    and control of a life. Who knew?

    learning that actually the greatest power comes from understanding that we actually do not know what’s going to happen in the next moment in the next breath. We assume but we really don’t know. Even if we see what is written to follow we really do not know. I was given guidance and there are a few things that I see that has manifest. I was like ⁓

    I see. Could I have avoided it? I don’t think so. I did try my best to. I worked really hard to avoid all the things that happened.

    I’m here, I’m still here in my home, the home I fought to keep.

    There are things that I prayed for and I wanted and then towards the end I’m now questioning, is that really me?

    So that I think it was about a week or two ago, my two empty rooms, I believe I’ve received a couple of inquiries and I really did not want to connect. I just felt so exhausted, so beaten on, so trodden on, so tired. I really did not want to connect to talk about people coming into my space, a space that ⁓ I can barely breathe in living in.

    on my own. The space needs a clearing, candles, incense, everything just to take that energy that I’ve been suppressing for so long trying to get through, plod through. People had told me that I should leave my home and come back at the transit end. I really don’t know who has the freedom to run away from transits.

    what a privileged life you lead, I think, if you’re able to see a transit and say, okay, let me get a ticket. I’m not staying there for now. That’s an amazing life. And maybe that’s your path. But I’m here, I’ve done it. Little bit of sadness.

    Yeah, but I’m here.

    Now I am, if I’m honest, struggling. I remind myself to be grateful. I understand that everything I have, there was a time that I prayed to have it. I meditated on having it. This house, I wrote a list of all the rooms I wanted. I wrote it down and I manifested it.

    It took six months because it was in the pandemic when I got it. It took six months for me to be able to move in. I found it in April. I moved in in September.

    So I have no idea why now of all times my mind has decided, my soul has decided, now is the time to think about moving after so much effort trying to keep it. It’s funny, I’m thankful that I didn’t just lose it.

    I’m really thankful that I was able to hold it together and at least keep this roof over my head.

    And then we think about maintaining the material and allowing for the spiritual to happen. And what do I mean by that? See, within everything that’s happened, I have learned to listen more to my inner voice. There’s been so many times I’ve sat down

    and listen to others speaking as to what I should, could and what they would do in my situation.

    You know, it’s taken me a long time to really fully acknowledge the environment that I’ve been in.

    not just my home. My home has been my shield and it has actually kept me safe. I’ve not been in a position until just this year when I got a plot, which I no longer have. I’ve not been in position to get involved with village life, politics or anything because I’ve just been home working, working, working morning, night, morning, night. I’ve hardly gone anywhere which has affected my body.

    It has been my refuge, my sanctuary, my shelter, my space.

    and this is the home and space that I’ve learned to listen to my soul in my waking hour.

    often waking up with messages of what to do today, how to go about things, sometimes questioning was that really a message? Did you make it up? Are you in tune or are you just making it up as you go along? And finding a joy and a pleasure when I’ve listened and things have worked out well. Expressing annoyance when I haven’t listened to find that things have not worked so well.

    So my lesson has been to take note of transits and there is a push and pull with me because sometimes I see transits and all that, that’s not really going to bother me and sometimes it could be the flip side of it. I don’t always know which ones will have a direct impact on my current situation. I’m still learning, it’s been many years reading astrology but I’m still learning.

    life experience is a great teacher right. My perfection year was two which meant that the focus was supposed to be on finance and because I’m still learning I assumed that meant I was going to have an increase of finance not a reduction.

    Jupiter has passed through my life and I expected an increase of finance. It wasn’t explained to me that actually Jupiter will enhance whatever it finds. Debts, work, whatever it finds. Who knew? I’ve been waiting for miracles. I’ve been waiting for fast solutions.

    Interestingly, the role I took on last year to get a bit of cash in, feedback I had was, ⁓ you know, you’re looking for fast life, fast cash, you know, it’s not going to happen. Like, who knew that I’d be going into full time hours? I’m learning there are things that we find and we think, don’t bother with that, because, you know, it could be dodgy or what I have here. And actually, they work out better.

    to the things that you think are more realistic. I’ve started to question what does work mean for me? We have this idea of stability, but you do know that the majority of the jobs out there are actually a gamble, right? It came to me one day when I was questioned about working for commission. Bonuses.

    The majority of the jobs that we do are the gamble. We have employers, do we not, that will guarantee an income. But we know as history has shown us, there has been times where employers haven’t been able to pay employees due to crashes in the marketplace and so. And even though as an employee, you may not personally be reliant on

    the interest rates also. Often companies are investing money into the stock exchange. There is a bit of a gambling environment going on, making sure that whoever has signed up for pensions can get those health care and also to secure the long-term position of the company. It’s common sense, You’d want to invest the money.

    into something to make it appreciate, no?

    Just because you may not necessarily go out and invest in a stock market yourself doesn’t mean that the company that you’re working for isn’t doing the same.

    we’ve just taken risks in a different way and the risk that we’re taking is determining the standard of life that we’re living, right?

    I’ve had a long period of struggle. And when I say a long period of struggle, there’s been so many hours, you know, I can’t believe I’ve done all of that. I’m only just getting back or getting my sense of self-respect. I’ve been doing coaching a lot of time free of charge. And interestingly, the Creator Network opportunity requires one to give

    coaching free of charge but it’s like a partnership so the idea is that you coach others to do well as they do well they start earning through gifts on the platform and then the platform pays you however

    I don’t know how many people one will meet that will do well. I’m yet to see it.

    There’s an energy about free delivery when it comes to this kind of service actually.

    I needed the experience. I needed to go through what I went through to see the depth, the level.

    I sat so many times watching people on a live stream with a few hundred people watching them and very few, you know they rely on gifts, very few gifts being sent and we’d all sit down taking knowledge, feeding off the host that was sharing things that one could use to help make their lives better.

    There’s been so many shifts around me and I think it was a ground for me to study and work out like what is this social media all about?

    I’ve learned real growth comes from not just networking but relationship building. It doesn’t matter which platform we use, what kind of conduit, we need to be in a position where we can connect with each other and relate. It’s the human nature. We need to hear each other’s voices even if we can’t touch. We need to be present. We need to be able to build rapport.

    So the focus now is on relationship building. The focus now is on creating spaces that safe where visibility is okay. And it’s the focus right now to make sure that there is a space where not only are we visible, but we have a voice because so many times we’ve been forced to clamp down on our voice in childhood.

    in womanhood, in life.

    And this is not the time for me personally to just be quiet.

    So the podcast remains. This is my space. I know I don’t have many listeners at the moment but that’s okay. For the time being this is the space as it is to be.

    I will continue to share my lessons. And you know, if you are going through something similar, whether or not you read astrology, I want you to be assured, as you know, something in your background, know, this time will pass. Be ready for the clean up. I’ve got so much cleaning up to do right now. I mean, literally. There are things, you know, when…

    We’re in the 11th of August now. I’m telling you, I felt the shift towards the end of July. I tell you how close it was. So the Pluto Square, Pluto Transit talked about finances disappearing, this disappearing, that disappearing. And we were coming towards the end of July and I thought, surely my finances will increase before the end of July. I probably misread a few transits and so hopefully

    hoped that things would change and in fact I was offered more income and really at the very last moment I was told it wasn’t going to come until August I was like what the hell how do you mean August we need it in July July I was in a position where I wasn’t even able to pay to keep my Wi-Fi on let me tell you

    managed to pay everything else but the wifi but here I am

    didn’t even give me a break to say okay now you’re leaving the transit let me give you a break I didn’t even have a break

    and it also meant that I had to focus on committing more of my time.

    And now I’m in a space of wanting freedom. I suppose that’s the next stage. Movement and freedom is my next focus, right?

    spend so long trying to keep a space and a house and a structure, stability, get to the end of it and then all of a sudden you just want it all to explode, for it to go, everything just to go. I don’t know how it’s going to work but I know things just need to move. And I know it might sound ungrateful but trust me, it’s like I’ve been in a container in a prism and then the prism’s just like

    I need to be near water, cool breeze and just breathe. Another thing, age near 51 now, I can definitely feel the change in my hormones. This is real life going on right now. It’s like my body is telling me this energy, this space, it needs to change. When everyone was saying to me, you know, you’re going to move or, you know,

    why don’t you give up your home? I was adamant no I’m staying this is my stability I have nothing else and now when I’m in a calmer space and the transit has gone I’m just like my goodness yeah I need to come out of this space and I’m sorry house I do thank you for having me.

    but it’s time to move on. I don’t know how it’s going to happen and I suppose that’s life. I don’t know how tomorrow will happen.

    So transformation has been the key. I am a Scorpio and it’s all about identifying transformation in myself and working with you as you transform. I do not know how the Creator Network opportunity will work out. I know it’s easy to just walk away. I’ve given them an opportunity to really be clear as to if they’re expected me to just

    clamp down on my personality and my voice to promote their business. Let’s see. But what I do know is that right now it’s important that I connect with others and take them through transformation so that they can be visible. Providing time and space for visibility. Through even my short time

    work in this creator network training and so I’ve acknowledged that actually beyond any platform we need spaces where we can talk freely where we can connect freely no algorithm in place just pure connection transformation visibility once we’re able to do our inner work we are then in a place and space to create channels so that

    brands, partnerships, collaboration can take place.

    I’ve learned there’s a difference between partnership and collaboration. One can collaborate with others without a contract in place. One can have a partnership with a contract and feel very alone in that partnership.

    Collaboration is key.

    I’m doing the work within myself and I know the universe is as such to guide those that need it to me. Transformation is the focus and I have been working on some websites yet again to bring my ecosystem together, regardless as to whether I’m on social media or not.

    There is a space now where others can connect with me and I am focused on supporting creators. I love that term creators. You do not need to be on social media to connect. We are all creators, right? We’re creating this life that we’re living. We can come together. We can look at our life story and transform through our life story and through that story, tap in.

    to be a light onto ourselves and everyone else.

    It’s hard at times.

    The idea really is that we need to go through that hard in order to appreciate the next step. And I am hopeful that the next step, the next chapter will be a beautiful one. I’m still in transition. This is a transition into my fifties. I never knew my life would be like this. Second home, second mortgage. Definitely not what I had in mind.

    Yeah, but it is what it is right. So you have been listening to Leta, Goddess of Growth and I’d love it if you could tap in to this podcast. To support me I do have some links at the bottom of the podcast that you can tap into. I have been using London or

    for a number of months now in fact I became an ambassador I’m still an ambassador for them so there is some kind of referral link where you can save a bit and treat yourself I will say again when I started taking the adaptogenic coffee I was on or trying to give up a 10 cup a day habits coffee and tea majority coffee with milk

    sugar. Let me tell you about almost a fortnight ago something happened I cannot remember what exactly I chose to have a coffee the old coffee with milk and I put sugar I put sugar because it tasted really sour so I put sugar and the thing was so disgusting

    I found I cannot drink my old coffee which used to taste the best, like the best coffee in the world to me. I can’t drink it anymore. I can’t drink the milk with the sh… I… it was disgusting. At the moment I drink London Atropics Black. I went down to two cups a day. I’ve now gone to one cup a day. Sometimes just half a cup. Sometimes half a cup in the morning is enough. And I must say, I’ve started putting half a cup in the fridge.

    it doesn’t taste that nice. reheat it and it doesn’t taste that nice so it’s kind of like if you’re not drinking the whole lot just just discard it. So I thought it was just me but I was rereading some material from them only this week talking about synergies and apparently quite a few people have been able to reduce their coffee intake. The coffee is so good you’ll get so much in it because they put adaptogens.

    that you really just want the one. You don’t need it. You don’t crave it.

    And there has been some mornings that I haven’t had it. I was raised as a child to always have a hot drink in the morning, but I’ve woken up and just not wanted it, just not fancied it.

    I don’t know if that’s the great marketing tool for it because obviously brands tend to want you to commit to buying and drinking their brands for life right? I think it is a brand that I could really have for life and just have it once in a while. It’s not an addiction which is a good thing I think.

    Yeah, there are some other links on the podcast as well. My focus is on wellness. I’ve really let myself go over the last couple of years. I was doing really well in hindsight around 23, 24. I used to walk every day three, four hours a day and so then I got a few injuries because I walked too much.

    And you know how life happens, right? It’s like self-sabotage. Then before you know it, life happened and I ended up just being in the house most days of the week.

    So yeah, I go back to the, I do need to work out how I will be manifesting a new space because I missed the ability which I had when I was in my apartment to leave home in the night and then just walk and walk and walk. It was light enough for me to do that. Where I’m living, it’s a village and when it gets dark, it doesn’t feel comfortable to me to walk on my own.

    Now mind you I do know that there are people that run in the very early hours I’ve been told, two o’clock and four o’clock in the morning. That’s just not me. So yeah, transformation is the theme of this podcast. Are you going through it yourself? What support are you getting at this time? We’re learning if you don’t know someone’s season.

    It can be quite difficult to guide someone through whichever transit they’re going through, whichever change or transformation and often the transformation that we’re going through we cannot see it on the surface. I had no idea what I was being molded to, what was being stripped back and I’m telling you so much has been stripped away, so many illusions. I’m sure because of my nature

    I’m still seeing illusions, but I must say as of today I’m asking more questions. I’m seeing a lot more that not everything I’d necessarily want to see. I’ve really had to cut back and decide where my energy is best placed. You know some of those arguments where regardless of what you do it’s going to still get the same result, so it kind of doesn’t matter.

    what the reasons or solutions are it’s like this is the result so let’s just get to it that’s where i am now time and season and that’s what i will be looking into in the next podcast i’ve addressed it briefly before but this transit that i’ve been in i’m telling you it really took it out of me energy it took it out of me

    Has it made me ⁓ reluctant to make decisions?

    maybe the decision making process has changed it’s more based on intuition even if i cannot see it cannot prove it it’s really a case of okay so how does this feel to you right now

    And that’s the lesson.

    So do join me, I will be back again and we’ll be talking through our season. Thank you for being here. You’ve been listening to Leta, Goddess of Growth.

    Archive Note & Disclaimer: When I recorded this in August 2025, I attributed my experiences to a Pluto Square Pluto transit. Upon deeper reflection and alignment in 2026, I recognise that the energy was actually a profound Uranus and Pluto disruption. This explains the sudden “explosive” urge for freedom and the systemic “push-pull” I felt during this time.

    I am checking in at end of a very long, very heavy transit. From late 2022 until July 2025, I have been within a grip that scoured my foundations. I spent these years fighting against disappearing finances and vanishing connections, driven by one singular focus: I must not lose my home.

    Now that peak of that energy has passed, I am in “cleanup” mode. Ironically, house I fought so hard to keep is now space I feel a sudden, Uranian urge to leave. I am learning that stability is not just a roof; it is freedom to breathe.

    Lessons from the Disruption: Key Messages & Chapters

    • [00:01] The Fatigue of Fight: I acknowledge physical aging and soul-weariness of last few years. I have survived, but I am mourning dreams that disappeared in process.
    • [10:00] Stability as Shield: I reflect on history—from leaving home at 17 to purchasing my first apartment. My home has been my sanctuary, but I am now questioning if it has become a container I have outgrown.
    • [20:00] Clamped Voices & TikTok Realities: I share experience with “multi-account flags” and suppressed reach. Even as I became Creator Network Manager, I felt the push-pull of an entity that wants my labour but limits my authentic expression.
    • [35:00] Training Ground for Power: I realise that mother-daughter relationship was training ground for these dynamics. I see cycle of “push-pull” and I am finally choosing to unsee illusions.
    • [45:00] Manifestation and Revaluation: I look back at how I manifested this home during pandemic. I am thankful I didn’t lose it, but I am now listening to inner voice which says: it is time for movement and freedom.
    • [55:00] Synergies of Wellness: I discuss shift away from 10-cup-a-day caffeine habit toward adaptogens. My body is telling me that energy and environment must change together.

    My Core Truth

    “Greatest power comes from understanding that we do not know what happens in next breath. I worked hard to avoid this struggle, only to find that struggle was the moulding. I am now focused on relationship building and creating safe spaces where visibility is okay and voice is not clamped.”

    Summary

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth, shares her transformative journey through personal growth and resilience, reflecting on the challenges and triumphs of navigating life’s transitions. She emphasizes the importance of faith, resolution, and the urge to start anew, while encouraging others to embrace transformation and relationship building.

    Keywords

    transformation, personal growth, resilience, faith, relationship building

    Takeaways

    • There’s a sense of faith, a sense of resolution.
    • I attempt to carve a path for the last quarter of my life.
    • Going through the aftermath of Pluto Square Pluto transit.
    • The urge to move, to start afresh a new chapter.
    • Life is about transformation, transforming myself first.
    • Real growth comes from relationship building.
    • Transformation has been the key.
    • Transformation is the focus, working on websites to bring ecosystem together.
    • It’s hard at times.
    • And that’s the lesson.

    Title Options

    • Embracing Transformation: A Journey of Growth
    • Navigating Life’s Transitions with Lita
    • The Power of Resilience and Renewal
    • Faith and Resolution: A Personal Journey
    • Starting Anew: Embracing Change
    • Building Relationships for Real Growth
    • Transformation as a Life Focus
    • Overcoming Challenges: A Story of Growth
    • The Urge to Move Forward
    • Lessons in Transformation and Growth

    Sound bites

    • A sense of faith, a sense of resolution.
    • Carve a path for the last quarter.
    • Aftermath of Pluto Square Pluto transit.
    • The urge to start afresh.
    • Life is about transformation.
    • Real growth from relationship building.
    • Transformation has been the key.
    • Working on websites to bring ecosystem.
    • It’s hard at times.
    • And that’s the lesson.

    Chapters

    • 00:02:48 Faith and Resolution
    • 00:03:10 Carving a New Path
    • 00:03:33 Aftermath of Pluto Transit
    • 00:04:44 The Urge to Move
    • 00:12:16 Life About Transformation
    • 00:29:45 Growth from Relationships
    • 00:34:00 Transformation as Key
    • 00:35:49 Focus on Transformation
    • 00:36:38 Challenges and Lessons
    • 00:43:01 Final Reflections
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  • Redefining Failure

    Redefining Failure

    Redefining Failure: Why Falling is Essential for Growth

    Welcome back to Empowerment Diaries®. Today, Lita, Goddess of Growth, explores a fundamental shift in mindset: Redefining Failure. We often view stumbling as a sign to stop, but what if falling is actually proof of bravery and ambition?

    Join Lita, Goddess of Growth, for Empowerment Diaries® as she explores why redefining failure is essential for success, growth, and personal transformation.

    Is Failure Just Preparation?

    When a baby learns to walk, nobody suggests child has failed because they fell. We understand those wobbles are necessary. Why, then, do we judge ourselves so harshly in adulthood? Redefining Failure means seeing every “stop and start” as part of a bigger picture. Faith doesn’t just bring good times; faith is understanding that every experience—including those that feel like setbacks—serves a purpose.

    The Soil Phase of Success

    Sometimes, life requires us to sit in “the soil.” To onlookers, being hidden away might look like lack of progress. However, Redefining Failure allows us to see this time as vital preparation. Just as seeds need darkness to germinate, our dreams often require quiet periods of “soil time” before they are ready to reach light.

    “Can we see failure as a necessary opportunity for redirection, preparation, or just proof that we are brave enough to try?” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Audacity to Dream

    Having audacity to dream is a success in itself. Whether it is a marriage that ended or a business pivot, these moments often open doors we never anticipated. By Redefining Failure, we stop seeing it as the opposite of success and start seeing it as a vital ingredient for it.

    Lita wants to hear from you. What was your greatest “failure,” and what doors did it eventually open? Come and connect at Goddess of Growth to share your journey.

    Listen to the short podcast below

    The above is from my 2025 archives.

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth (00:00)
    Welcome back to the Empowerment Diaries, a short podcast.

    I’ve talked about the season, what about your idea of failure? We’re talking about faith, understanding that good and bad times is all part of the picture.

    Faith doesn’t override our life. Faith doesn’t bring just good. It’s everything all included. Faith to me is understanding that everything that is going on is part of the bigger picture. So is it now time to rewrite our ideas and our understanding of failure?

    When we see a baby learn to walk, we do not say to the child, the baby, well you failed for not walking, though I must admit I was a late walker. I’ve been told many a time that it was my sister almost a year younger than I that taught me how to walk.

    But that didn’t stop me from learning to walk, did it? We need to start having conversations about failure. What does it mean for us? Is it okay to fail? It should be, right?

    runners don’t learn how to run or sprint overnight there’s a few stops and starts lots of things that we do we have to learn how to do it through falls is time is it not to look at failure as a necessary part of life

    and often it’s our fear of failing that prevents us from doing new things so that we can experience the very growth that we’re here to have in this lifetime, to experience in this lifetime.

    I would love to have a conversation on here about failure. What does that mean to you? How many times have you failed to get to the successful space that you are into at this moment right now?

    Can we now see failure as the necessary opportunity for maybe redirection, preparation or just proof that we are brave enough to try, inspired, ambitious enough. For many a year in my childhood I would hear that I have no ambition and

    I see myself as someone that doesn’t really have ambition I have dreams. Now I do believe it’s possible for many of my dreams to come true and I will say there are some dreams that now will never come true so yes one would say I have failed at those but even to have the

    gall, the balls, the audacity to even dream of it being possible. Well kudos to you and to I, to me in doing that too.

    I have had been on quite a journey.

    and there’s many a time I thought wow this is my break this is the time when I’m here to finally succeed only to fall right back down on my backside to learn that no this is not the time of any great elevation this is just life as it is.

    so many lessons and I am in the season as much as I am now here talking and using this podcast to connect and express there are some things that we’re learning and I’m learning very late in life one needs to take some time to allow to be in the soil and just let it just do what it needs to do in the soil until it’s ready to come into the light.

    and on the surface that can look like failure but I’m also more confident when I’m making decisions and decided to just leave things in the soil I’m more confident to just get on with it without explaining it there is no need for the explanation now

    failure is it the opposite of success or is it part of the journey to success do you think without failure we cannot succeed right unless you’re someone that immediately gets it right isn’t it part of success failure let me hear

    your greatest failure and I’d love to hear your reflection as to what it opened for you. We’ll talk about the not so important my second marriage which wasn’t a marriage but you know in getting married it opened so many doors to include purchasing the property that I’m in now.

    mindset change. so what is it that you’ve been doing that maybe you’re failing at now or have done in the past that you now realize okay yes i’m failing at it but what is life telling me what doors are closing what doors are opening

    denial take it as a blessing right you’ve been listening to Lita goddess of growth today I do thank you do come in and communicate and connect have a good one

    Summary

    In this episode of the Empowerment Diaries, Lita, the Goddess of Growth, explores the concept of failure as an integral part of personal development and growth. She discusses how embracing failure can lead to new opportunities, redirection, and preparation for future success. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, Lita encourages listeners to view failure not as a setback but as a necessary step in the journey to success.

    Keywords

    failure, growth, personal development, resilience, opportunity

    Takeaways

    • Faith includes both good and bad times.
    • Failure is part of the bigger picture.
    • Rewrite your understanding of failure.
    • Conversations about failure are necessary.
    • Failure is a necessary part of life.
    • Fear of failure prevents growth.
    • Failure can be an opportunity for redirection.
    • Dreams may not always come true, but trying is brave.
    • Life is about learning through falls.
    • Failure is part of the journey to success.

    Title Options

    • Embrace Failure, Embrace Growth
    • The Beauty of Failing Forward
    • Redefining Success Through Failure
    • Growth Through Adversity
    • The Journey of Personal Development
    • Failure: A Step to Success
    • Turning Setbacks into Opportunities
    • The Power of Resilience
    • Faith and Failure: A Dual Path
    • Learning to Walk Through Falls

    Sound bites

    • Faith includes both good and bad times.
    • Failure is part of the bigger picture.
    • Rewrite your understanding of failure.
    • Conversations about failure are necessary.
    • Failure is a necessary part of life.
    • Fear of failure prevents growth.
    • Failure can be an opportunity for redirection.
    • Dreams may not always come true, but trying is brave.
    • Life is about learning through falls.
    • Failure is part of the journey to success.

    Chapters

    • 00:00:09 Understanding Faith and Failure
    • 00:01:02 Conversations on Failure
    • 00:02:04 Opportunities in Failure
    • 00:02:45 Dreams and Ambitions
    • 00:04:16 Failure as a Journey to Success

    Keynotes

    Sometimes we need to fall in order to rise beyond anything and any level we consciously plan for ourselves. If you are ready to focus on your dreams and to do the work required through trial and error to build your personal brand. Join me as I build House of Sovren.

    Lita, Goddess of Growth

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  • Trusting the Process

    Trusting the Process

    Trusting the Process: Finding Blessings in Every Detour

    Welcome to Empowerment Diaries®. I am Lita, Goddess of Growth, and today I am sharing a personal journey regarding a recent trip to London for dental surgery. This experience became a profound lesson in Trusting the Process, even when logic suggests everything is going wrong.

    Lita, Goddess of Growth, shares a powerful journey of navigating London strikes, dental surgery, and financial hurdles while Trusting the Process of divine timing.

    Navigating Midst of Chaos

    Between train strikes, bus delays, and strict new 20mph speed limits, my journey to get a tooth extracted was fraught with potential disaster. Living on a limited budget means every delay carries a financial weight, creating a sense of hyper-vigilance. However, Trusting the Process requires us to move beyond fear and listen to inner prompts.

    Every Disappointment Covers a Blessing

    After missing my scheduled coach home due to traffic, I felt a moment of frustration. Yet, by Trusting the Process, I accepted a seat on a different coach heading to Bridgwater instead of Glastonbury. This detour turned out to be exactly what was required.

    • Divine Alignment: Arriving in Bridgwater allowed me access to a supermarket that was still open—the only way to secure soft foods needed for post-surgery healing.
    • Unexpected Support: From kind bus drivers to an incredibly accommodating taxi service, support appeared exactly when needed.
    • Hindsight Wisdom: What looked like failure (missing a coach) was actually a redirection toward better resources.

    “Everything is working in our favour, even though it might not look like it in the moment. It is all part of a divine plan.” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Listening to Your Season

    I am currently holding off on astrology readings to focus on one-on-one consultations. Success isn’t about arbitrary goal setting; it is about understanding your current season. Whether you are in “soil time” or navigating a stressful transition, I am here to support your journey.

    Trusting the Process means knowing that even when resources are low, you are being looked after. I felt so much gratitude eating simple yogurt that night, knowing I was exactly where I was meant to be.

    How has a recent “detour” in your life turned into a blessing? Connect with Goddess of Growth below and share your story of transformation.

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth (00:01)
    Lita, goddess of growth here. I’m going to share a story with you about my trip to London this week to get my very first tooth extracted. Last year, poverty hit. I had to find an NHS dentist. I’ve not had a NHS dentist for a long while.

    Years ago I used to work for a health insurance company and I had dental insurance and I was able to go privately and get my payment subsidised.

    When I left that company I continued the private practice because I quite liked them. That was up until really 2020 when I decided to sell my apartment and get this home that I’m in now in Somerset. I was in Royal Tunbridge Wales at the time and I’m now in Somerset. So that’s the journey. When I came to Somerset that year my tooth that the private dentist worked on chipped.

    I was still in work so I found a local dentist. Apparently in this area there aren’t any NHS dentists at all, not even for children. When I got to the dentist they barely wanted to see me because of the Covid crisis that was going on the pandemic.

    I paid the fee to be seen and looked at only to be told well we’re not doing any kind of treatment right now your tooth looks fine go to Boots and get the temporary filling yeah I had to pay for that guidance I purchased the temporary filling which is still in my cabinet unopened actually X amount of years later and

    after the probably the first year or so I went back to the dentist the same one and

    a kind of patch was pulled on my tooth I thought permanent but it chipped away again not long after I sigh vowed just to let it go until I could raise some funds to find a dentist that I could be confident in. Well poverty struck 2022-2023 and it was last year finally 2024 that I decided I needed to find an NHS dentist because I was really worried that I was going to end up with

    some kind of root canal or so.

    I found the dentist and they didn’t have any appreciation at all in my opinion. So the fact that I was living on the poverty line, I was not able to claim benefits in full because I have a mortgage and so forth. So I had gone self-employed at that point and they did support me with self-employment. But the idea was that I had to earn a certain, I think they call it an income barrier. I don’t remember.

    I cannot remember the term of it. So I was self-employed but because I wasn’t earning enough for their measure they weren’t giving me money but I could go to see a NHS dentist so that was fine. I got to the dentist and it’s two appointments. So the first one they told me my tooth was fine they put a temporary filling on and told me to go back to return.

    I went again and they weren’t able to see me it was just another checkup but they told me that one of my teeth that I filled many years before, 10 years or so before, was apparently needed to be removed so they were going to refer me to a dental hospital. Fine. At the time I was told

    the dental hospital would be free I suppose because of my circumstances at the time but it wasn’t long before I managed to get myself some part-time work to supplement my income, my self-employed income, so I sat waiting for the referral. It took a year for my appointment to come and I called

    and or they called I called to confirm the details and at that time I was asked am I earning I said yes and they said well it’s going to cost you 75 pounds and I think 30 or 80 I was like wow when I joined the NHS last year they told me it would be free okay so my circumstances have changed and I need to pay fine so close to the time I booked the coach

    I arranged a taxi because I need a little bit of a escort, a drive from the village to Glastonbury.

    and I heard that there was a train strike, tube strike. Now I remember those from a child, I was born and raised in London, so I know what it is when there was a train strike. And London has so many straight roads, right? When you get to London, what I remember as a child, most of the stations you could literally walk them, the stops, you could literally walk them, they’re not far from each other at all. Depending on where you’re going, you could probably walk quite a distance to get to your location quite easily.

    but the tube makes things so much easier to get around. I had no idea a train strike was coming but by the time I found out my coat had already been booked plus it took me a year to get this appointment. Didn’t have the funds to go privately to get it removed so I wanted to keep the appointment in place to get this tooth removed. Booked the coat.

    The taxi driver told me he would be here to collect me at 6.40. He didn’t arrive until about 6.50. I live in a location that doesn’t have any like resources where you can get cash out or so. I needed to get him cashed I think because he was late he told me no don’t worry just pay me later etc. Got on the coach. We got to London probably

    30 minutes late. My appointment that I booked, I always ask for something later to allow myself time to shop around and take time. It was a really good thing that I had asked for the appointment time as I did because I found I barely made the appointment. In fact, I was 10 minutes late to the appointment due to having to take buses and being in traffic, but they were accommodating.

    I went and I got my tooth removed and that was an experience in itself. It was nothing as to what I was expecting, they were very kind and even till date I have not taken any pain relief also I haven’t had a need to do so so I’m really pleased with the experience actually they were really kind. ⁓ So I’m going to talk to you about the journey back.

    I went to visit my aunt who is in hospital and I thought I couldn’t go that long distance and not see her. I left and I was talking to one of the consultants on the way back and he suggested that I go to a tube station totally forgetting about the strike.

    I followed his guidance which turned out to be a blessing because it meant that I was able, even though I found that the train station was closed, I was able to go to a bus stop which was before the bus stop he was left at, so I had more of an opportunity to get on a seat, so that was one thing.

    Then I got to Paddington and when I got to Paddington the train staff, one of them said that the train to Hammersmith was working. I thought brilliant, let me go to that trains, you know the platform now. If anyone knows Paddington, there’s, it’s quite a big station, long walks.

    got to the platform, I was there 15 or so minutes at that point I was thinking something’s not right here I don’t know I just don’t know and just as I was thinking that someone came downstairs one of the staff she was smiling okay everyone there’s no more trains there’s no more trains I thought oh no now

    Just ⁓ to note I was aiming to get my coach from Hammersmith station that was leaving at 18.45. I’d given myself a two hour buffer to get back there knowing that there was a strike. So I left the station I felt I still had enough time but I was a bit harassed and I made my way to

    past St Mary’s Hospital and the bus stop. Now on the bus stop they had the number 27 bus, 7 bus and other buses and in the old days they created these guides as to how long the bus journey would be. So I decided on the number 27 would be the best bus for me. The first one came it was full.

    I had a little case with me, I thought I’m older now, I’m suffering with hormones, I can’t go on that bus, I’m really sorry, it’s only 12 minutes, I’ve got enough time, I’ll wait for the next bus to come, which is what I did. I was so hot, it rained quite a bit in London and I was happy to be there in short sleeves at this point.

    The bus arrived, I thought, brilliant, I will make it. I had a voucher that had been sent as a gift that I could use in &S. I had a whole plan that I was going to get butter and some items. I received the list because my tooth had been extracted. I received the list of soft foods that I should have.

    at least for the night etc whilst I was going through healing so I thought perfect I will get to Hammersmith in time to go to the eminence in Hammersmith and catch the coach. I was sitting on the bus and I was using Google to guide me as to where I was because unfortunately I was not able to get a seat that was facing the driver’s view.

    and I’m noticing on my app that it says I will be there in 15 minutes, you could walk in 8 minutes but in my periphery all I could see is the same location, I could not see any signs that I was close to Hammersmith and this was going on near 20 minutes.

    There was someone that sat next to me and as she was leaving she says, it looks as if you know you’re worried about getting somewhere. I said yeah I don’t understand. It says 15 minutes and eight minutes. I’ve been saying that for a while. I can see that we’re moving. I don’t understand what’s going on. She says where are you going to? I said I’m going to Hammersmith. She says oh dear that’s a long way away from here. I said it’s a long way. She says yes it’s going to be about 40 minutes. It’s 40 minutes. This was after…

    think it was after 5, must have been after 5 going on 6. Remember the coach was 6.45.

    Then I thought okay I should still make it I won’t be able to shop but at least I’ll get on the coach right and this journey is going on and I’m saying to myself no something’s not right. I finally managed to stand up took my case stood in the alleyway the aisle and when I stood up I noticed that there was hardly any traffic in front of the bus.

    and everything was like on a go slow.

    I’m looking at my clock and by this time it was about 6.30 and I could not see Hammersmith so I knew I had a real problem, a real issue so I went up to the driver finally what’s happening like I can see that the road is clear what’s going on how far are we from Hammersmith we’re only two stops away I’m thinking two stops doesn’t take long remember I grew up in London I said so I

    can I walk it from here to there like what’s going on he says no I wouldn’t advise you to walk it because you have to well he explained it I understood Harrisweath was closed but it was like a circular anyhow so I stood there waiting and the times going before I knew it was 40 640 I could not believe it in fact roll back the clock I had

    called the coach company but I was too late when I called they said their offices closed at five o’clock so I had no one to call the coach driver to say I was running late but in my mind I remembered that in the morning they were half hour late in fact we got there I think about five past 10 55 and we should have got to Hammersmith about 10 20 so we were a good time late which they apologized for

    and in my mind if they were late in the morning they would know people would be late in the evening allow us at least a 10-15 minute buffer that’s in my mind anyhow so I’m with this bus driver and he’s asking me questions that I’m finding a bit irritating right now because his his questions aren’t helping me get to the bus station in the time that I need to be there

    Bless him, he was really kind. In fact, we got to the bus station and I could see my coach company station. So I was like, at this point, thank you, thank you, thank you. And he told me, bless you, know, hope everything goes well, blah, blah, blah. He allowed me to get off before the stop he was supposed to put me off. And I rushed down to this coach company and saw the driver who is a friend of my mother’s.

    and I was like hi I’m so happy that you’ve waited thank you so much and my goodness I was really worried I was gonna miss it and he’s like ⁓ you have missed it it’s already gone it’s like what and a few expletives by the way he said yes they went five minutes ago

    I was like what am I going to do now? Now I will tell you I left home on a very very limited budget and the funny thing about it is I was speaking to my sister and I was saying everything should be fine if everything goes on time. If anything goes wrong then I’m in trouble.

    Anyhow long story short he told me I could go on his coach that he was driving which wasn’t going to Glastonbury it was going to Bridgewater and I said well how is that going to work so Bridgewater is half hour from where I live. I called the taxi driver he was so accommodating not a worry he will pick me up from Bridgewater etc.

    and at that point I had no time to go shopping or anything.

    and we were talking, the driver and I just outside there was a woman with him, she had her notepad and I could see my surname so evidently the driver had given my name as someone that hadn’t turned up for their seat and the coach driver explained to me that apparently they get penalised if they’re the stand too long by TfL noting of course TfL was striking that day.

    I was thankful another couple, same thing had happened to them so we all got onto this coach together and it’s interesting because I don’t know about this coach this is the first time I’m hearing about it. Before we got on I was telling him I really was supposed to get butter and a few things, yogurts and so so that I could have something to eat. I said I’ve had my tooth removed, says yes I can see that because I had the gauze in my mouth still.

    and he said not to worry I don’t promise but usually when we drive to Bridgewater there are times we can get there for 9.45 and it’s basically outside an ASDA and the ASDA should be open I said that’s amazing that would have given the driver for the taxi who was only expecting a five-minute journey to take me home from Glastonbury

    who now is leaving his home to meet me half hour of the journey to pick me up and then take me back. It was really kind of him to agree to do so. That would give me enough time to get a shop and be outside with him on time. So I had a voucher, a gift sent to me, love to shop. And with that, you can convert vouchers to…

    purchase gift vouchers from the store and I’m telling you financial times means that I am using all kinds of resources to shop at the moment and

    basically we managed to get to Bridgewater outside Asda for 950, 950. I wrote to the driver, the taxi driver to let him know I’m here, it’s 950 and just to let you know that I’m here and he messaged okay 10 minutes.

    I misread that thinking he was coming 10 minutes past 10 but it is what it is. Got into the store converted £10 from the voucher to get the ASDA voucher. By the time I got to the counter

    The counter said the my app said that the voucher would be delivered on the 17th. It was the 10th. So I had to use money I really didn’t have basically to pay for the goods. But. I received a message from the taxi driver. Where are you? This is about 10 o’clock or two minutes past 10.

    and at which point I realised he was already outside ASSA so I had to just pay up and get out of there. By the time I got into his car I received another message to tell me, your voucher is available now, it was too late then. But the blessing was that actually we got home, I got home, he was able to drop me outside and everything.

    and the journey was much faster by coach than it usually is going to Glastonbury plus I had food to eat I hadn’t actually eaten since before I left at seven o’clock that morning

    right up until i returned home after 10 that evening and i had the yogurts the bananas like the soft food i was guided to purchase i sat there and i was just so grateful so so grateful like so many blessings throughout the day many i suppose i haven’t really spoken about but yeah

    and I think that’s been the message really why I’ve decided that I need to hold off on astrology readings and all of that for the time being is that I need to be in more of a space where I can listen to my prompts listen to my prompts so that I can be able to tap into the next step even on the bus I had a feeling it wasn’t over

    I knew that the time had gone and the likelihood was that the coach has gone but I did not get into that space of thinking I’m not going to get home. I still had this thought I just needed to get to the platform and I would get home and I did get home and I will tell you this had I got on the coach to get to Glastonbury

    I would not have had the right food to eat that supported the fact that I had my tooth extracted because most of the shops were closed. The detour

    to Bridgewater meant that I could go into Asda the only shop open and I learned that apparently it’s open till 11 o’clock so this is now a new thing that I could do in the future if I travel to London just take that coach and just pay extra for a taxi so that I can get home with some shopping every disappointment covers a blessing they say and I experienced it it’s been it was I was so emotional at the end of it actually

    and now looking back I know that I was just being guided to just take it easy don’t rush take your time because everything was in time as I say I’ve had my tooth extracted I’ve not had any pain I forgot my pain relief at home

    because I was guided to take it and I forgot it, it came to my mind. When I got to London I wanted to get something from my aunt and I managed to pick up pain relief there. Till now the box remains unopened, I didn’t need it, still don’t need it. Trust and faith. And I’d love to be able to say that I…

    We’ll look at the many experiences, especially over the last couple of years and have more trust in the process. One day is good, one day not so good, but yeah, I’m okay, you’re okay. So now we’re taking time to listen to what life is telling us, not what we think.

    It may not look right on the surface but overall everything is going exactly to plan, the divine plan and working in our favour even though it might not look like it in the moment it’s all working in our favour.

    So I hope you got some kind of inspiration from the story and I suppose there’ll be things that you’ll get from it that, you know, everyone will get from it what they need to. I’ve shared the story a couple of times because I am in awe and I need to take myself out of the stories and put myself in it and congratulate myself.

    take pride in the fact that on many levels I listened. There were times in that process that I was getting frustrated and I wanted to push that bus along. I learned later, much later through the taxi driver actually, that the bus driver who I was saying was going on a go slow, it wasn’t him. Apparently this new directive with cars can only drive 20 miles per hour. I was bemused. I was on a bus and I could see

    crowds of cyclists passing buses and cars and so forth they were moving faster than the vehicles and there was a time I had said to him you know this journey should have taken I think 23 minutes like it’s nearly an hour what’s going on and he said for him to go faster he’ll need a police escort I thought he was being funny but it’s a good thing I kept my cool and I was just

    calm and I said just breathe and it’s really good that I didn’t bounce out because what it meant was he was in a space of wanting to assist me to get there as best as he could he didn’t have to let me out when he did but yeah

    Maybe I will get to a stage where when scenarios happen like that I can fully sit down and just trust and just not get concerned at all. Maybe that’s the next step of the journey. I am not there yet. And it’s nice when you look in hindsight to say you know it was all being looked out for you. was all… you didn’t have to worry you know.

    I think when, and one might say this is an excuse, but when your resources are low you’re more hyper vigilant because you know you cannot afford for things to go wrong because there’s a financial implication. And in missing the first coach, yes, I ended up paying more for a taxi. And in…

    not preparing a voucher or so for ASDA I ended up paying money from my card which wasn’t in the budget things like that but I’m learning I’m getting there I’m still in awe I’m still very thankful I’m still like wow and I’m telling you when I was eating my yogurt that night

    10th of September I was in so much awe the yogurt was one of the nicest things I’ve eaten so thankful so grateful so much kindness so much support taxi driver was very supportive everything you know so I hope this has been inspirational

    It’s my journey to London to get my tooth extracted and yeah trust in the process first.

    You’ve been listening to Lita, goddess of growth today. Thank you for joining me. Please do put your comments below. I am working on my foundation. I would like to offer one-on-one consultations to anyone that’s going through change. We can take some time out to discuss and reflect on the time and the season. Let me save you some time as you work through your time, your season, and we’ll be looking at strategies for success.

    this is not about goal setting because ultimately there’s no point setting a goal until you understand that the season you are in. I’m going through change, you’re going through change, I’ll be here to support you. Do connect, you’ve got my details on my hot page, Lita, Goddess of Growth, if you look for it you should be able to find it and it will be on the podcast. Thank you for joining me.

    Summary

    Lita, Goddess of Growth, shares her personal journey of overcoming financial struggles and finding an NHS dentist for a tooth extraction. She reflects on the challenges faced, the kindness received, and the lessons learned about trusting the process and embracing change.

    Keywords

    Lita, Goddess of Growth, NHS dentist, tooth extraction, financial struggles, trust the process, personal growth, change, kindness, journey, inspiration

    Takeaways

    • Trust the process, even when it seems uncertain.
    • Financial struggles can lead to unexpected blessings.
    • Kindness from others can make a big difference.
    • Embrace change as a part of personal growth.
    • Finding the right support is crucial during tough times.
    • Reflecting on past experiences can provide valuable insights.
    • Staying calm in challenging situations is important.
    • Every disappointment can hide a blessing.
    • Listening to your instincts can guide you through challenges.
    • Sharing personal stories can inspire others.

    Title Options

    • Trust the Process: A Journey of Growth
    • Overcoming Struggles with Grace
    • Finding Light in Financial Hardships
    • The Power of Kindness and Support
    • Embracing Change: A Personal Story
    • Lessons Learned from a Tooth Extraction
    • Navigating Life’s Challenges with Trust
    • Inspiration from Adversity
    • The Journey to Finding an NHS Dentist
    • Personal Growth Through Life’s Trials

    Sound bites

    • Trust the process, even when it seems uncertain.
    • Financial struggles can lead to blessings.
    • Kindness from others makes a difference.
    • Embrace change for personal growth.
    • Support is crucial during tough times.
    • Reflect on past experiences for insights.
    • Stay calm in challenging situations.
    • Every disappointment hides a blessing.
    • Listen to your instincts for guidance.
    • Share stories to inspire others.

    Chapters

    • 00:00:00 Introduction to the Journey
    • 00:03:00 Facing Financial Struggles
    • 00:06:00 Finding an NHS Dentist
    • 00:09:00 Lessons in Kindness and Support
    • 00:12:00 Embracing Change and Growth
    • 00:15:00 Reflecting on the Experience

    Lita, Goddess of Growth, shares a powerful journey of navigating London strikes, dental surgery, and financial hurdles while Trusting the Process of divine timing.

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  • Digital Sovereignty

    Digital Sovereignty: Navigating the Complexities of Social Media

    Digital Sovereignty: Navigating the Complexities of Social Media

    Welcome to Empowerment Diaries®. I am Lita, Goddess of Growth, recording today via Riverside as I transition into full-time self-employment. This journey requires deep understanding of how global platforms operate and, more importantly, when to step away to protect Digital Sovereignty.

    The Reality of Platform Algorithms

    Earlier this year, in April 2025, I achieved a contract as a Creator Network Manager with TikTok. However, within months, I chose to part ways with platform. The final catalyst was a simple post intended to guide creators toward Sovren Creator Network Guild™. Despite following guidelines, post was suppressed and my account received a violation notice.

    Navigating these automated systems can be a trial. After several attempts to identify error, support staff suggested a permanent ban. While matter was eventually 80% resolved, experience highlighted a vital lesson: total reliance on third-party algorithms can put business at risk. Digital Sovereignty means owning your connection to your community without interference from opaque “violation notices.”

    A podcast from my 2025 archives.

    Lita (00:00)
    to the empowerment diaries I’m using Riverside on the app which is something that’s quite new for me often I record from directly from the iMac well I’m here I’m back this is Lita goddess of growth self-fashioned goddess of growth you are leta welcome and I am still transitioning from

    a number of decisions made this year as I try to embed my understanding, everything I’ve learned over the last couple of years really, to get myself into a position of full-time self-employment which is my ultimate goal. I’ve mentioned previously on this podcast excitement at achieving a

    contract with TikTok at the time as creator network manager this was April 2025 this year and within a few months I decided to end the contract part ways the platform was going through a number of changes and the final crux for me was putting a post up guiding

    creators on how to apply to join my network, whether or not they qualified for the creator network opportunity that I had partnered with TikTok to provide. The post was suppressed, in fact deleted of sorts. I was able to capture a screenshot where I was told I had violated the platform and after three attempts at trying to identify why.

    it was receiving a violation notice. The support staff told me quite politely that I was permanently banned. I never experienced what a ban was. I still had access to the account, I was still able to post and I basically escalated the matter, tried a number of ways to do so. Finally the ⁓ matter was

    80 % resolved, the warning was removed from the account, no explanation as to why and a violation notice was still kept on, apparently to remind me of what to avoid in the future though no one could tell me what it was that I was to avoid. Yes and it’s now middle of September and there has been some times when I thought, did I, was I too hasty?

    and then I get to remember all the experiences of the last couple of years and I know I was on that journey to just see the other side. I have attempted to be on social media for many years, TikTok is not the first and I do acknowledge that one comes upon the same barriers in each attempt.

    There is something, now we understand this is an algorithm, there is something about the way these platforms operate. When you decide to join in good faith you presume because of the international connections, the people, the buzz, that this would be your opportunity to connect beyond your local

    residents, belong, beyond the nation that you’re in, we’re looking at connecting internationally. And I must admit each time I’ve joined social media I have had great hopes. I remember the old days of Facebook and in those days we hadn’t a clue so we connected with our colleagues, our friends, family, everyone.

    Until we started noticing some people, in my experience, I noticed people, one really stark situation where a woman was off sick from work quite a lot and she had posted images of herself in London with her family and on her return to work she was dismissed. Not that one can’t be sick and still be in London.

    getting respite but the optics were not great right posting that you’re out and about when you’ve reported to work sick so I learned in those days actually if you’re doing social media you have to separate the business from pleasure but the lines can get easily blurred and platforms often give us tools do they not where you can share information with just your closer friends and then publicly generally.

    Instagram didn’t really get on with it so much, tried to get to know it. I latched onto threads quite quickly and then left it quite quickly. Too many lingerie adverts. Initially I thought women were just promoting the brands that they were promoting until I realised that there was a darker side behind the images.

    and no matter how many times I deleted and blocked, deleted and blocked the next day I would go in and find the same women, very nice negligee and so forth on my profile. So I had to delete threads. I think there was some kind of reporting system that you do and I think Instagram would often say ⁓ it’s it’s it wasn’t a problem basically for the platform so I left. ⁓

    We joined the platforms and they set targets for us to get followers and these follower counts are really important if we’re looking to monetize. Now admittedly, it wasn’t until I joined TikTok that I heard or learned of this thing called monetize. I joined TikTok to promote my coaching business and I found out about this opportunity to go live.

    And at the time you did a thousand people to go and live stream. And I followed the trends. I went into the grow rooms to connect people to the account so that I could have this magic number to live stream. And I was really excited about it. This was probably 2023. ⁓

    And then we went on from there. And the nice thing about meeting people on the platform from other countries, you get to hear how monetization works for them. So it was someone in America that taught me that she was able to live stream and sell as an affiliate. She also taught me that there were brands that was paying her per video.

    promote their brand so she would get a lump sum the item and it was her task then to showcase the item in the video and so forth. In the UK the rules are slightly different

    Yes, affiliate marketing was available. I hadn’t met anyone even to date that was paid to do a video as this American friend that I made had ⁓ made. The rules are very, very different or I wasn’t meeting people in the UK that had had the same opportunity. Either way,

    I got to understand, of course, not everywhere had the shop, so other regions, they were making money through brand deals with private companies off the platform. So it was really a case of making sure you had a good community connection on your account so that you would be in the best position to promote yourself and the brand.

    Summary

    In this episode of the Empowerment Diaries, Lita shares her journey towards self-employment, discussing the challenges and decisions she faced along the way. She reflects on her experiences with social media platforms, particularly TikTok, and the impact of these platforms on her professional growth. Lita also talks about the importance of building a supportive community and the lessons learned from navigating the digital landscape.

    Keywords

    empowerment, self-employment, social media, TikTok, community building, digital landscape, professional growth, challenges, decisions, journey

    Takeaways

    • Embed understanding from past experiences for future growth.
    • Full-time self-employment is the ultimate goal.
    • Navigating social media platforms can be challenging.
    • Building a supportive community is crucial.
    • Decisions can lead to unexpected outcomes.
    • Understanding platform changes is essential.
    • Reflecting on past experiences aids in decision-making.
    • Social media can impact professional growth.
    • Community connections enhance opportunities.
    • Learning from others’ experiences is valuable.

    Title Options

    • Empowerment Diaries: Lita’s Journey
    • Navigating Social Media Challenges
    • From TikTok to Self-Employment
    • Building Community in the Digital Age
    • Lessons from the Digital Landscape
    • Empowerment Through Self-Employment
    • Overcoming Social Media Hurdles
    • The Path to Professional Growth
    • Reflecting on Digital Experiences
    • Community and Growth in the Digital World

    Sound bites

    • “Full-time self-employment is the ultimate goal.”
    • “Navigating social media platforms can be challenging.”
    • “Building a supportive community is crucial.”
    • “Decisions can lead to unexpected outcomes.”
    • “Understanding platform changes is essential.”
    • “Reflecting on past experiences aids in decision-making.”
    • “Social media can impact professional growth.”
    • “Community connections enhance opportunities.”
    • “Learning from others’ experiences is valuable.”
    • “Empowerment through self-employment.”

    Chapters

    • 00:00:30 Introduction to Empowerment
    • 00:00:59 Challenges with TikTok
    • 00:02:17 Reflecting on Decisions
    • 00:02:59 Social Media Experiences
    • 00:05:54 Building Community

    Separating Business from Pleasure

    From the early days of Facebook to rise of Instagram and Threads, lines between personal life and professional presence have blurred. I have observed how “optics” can impact professional reputations. My experience on Threads, for example, required a swift exit due to poor ad-targeting and content that did not align with Goddess of Growth values.

    “When you decide to join in good faith, you presume international connections will allow you to belong beyond your local nation.” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Monetisation and Global Differences

    Joining TikTok introduced the concept of “monetisation” via social media. While new associates and friends in America shared success with brand deals and affiliate marketing, UK rules often present different hurdles. Success is not just about magic numbers or follower counts; it is about building a robust, authentic community connection on your own terms.

    As I build House of Sovren™ and architectural foundation of Sovren Creator Network Guild™, my focus remains on expressing truth and facilitating growth for others navigating these digital spaces

    Digital Sovereignty: 5 Lessons for Navigating Social Platforms

    Building House of Sovren™ has provided invaluable insights into how creators must protect their energy and assets online. Here are my top realisations from navigating the TikTok and Threads landscape:

    • 1. Algorithm Is Not Your Friend Relying solely on third-party platforms for visibility is risky. As experienced with Sovren Creator Network Guild™, an algorithm can suppress or delete vital business information without warning. Always ensure you have a direct line to your community away from social media.
    • 2. Protect Your Brand Integrity If a platform begins to serve content—such as intrusive adverts or irrelevant suggestions—that misaligns with your values, do not be afraid to leave. Digital Sovereignty means choosing environments that respect your professional standards.
    • 3. Optics and Boundaries Matter Blurred lines between business and pleasure can lead to professional misunderstandings. Maintaining a clear distinction between personal respite and public-facing brand activity is essential for long-term reputation management.
    • 4. Monetisation Rules Vary by Region Opportunities for income, such as affiliate marketing or brand deals, change significantly between UK and US markets. Research local regulations and don’t assume a “viral” strategy in one country will translate to financial success in another.
    • 5. Community Over Follower Counts Reaching “magic numbers” to go live or unlock features is only useful if those connections are authentic. Focus on building deep, international community connections rather than chasing empty metrics.
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  • Reflective Journey Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Internal Authority

    Internal Authority: Moving Beyond Digital Dependency

    Welcome to Empowerment Diaries®. I am Lita, Goddess of Growth, and today I am exploring the concept of Internal Authority. As I work toward full-time self-employment, I have realised that true independence requires more than just leaving a contract; it requires a conscious shift away from dependency on external systems—be they algorithms, astrology, or artificial intelligence.

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth (00:00)
    So hello there, this is Lita, Goddess of Growth and I’m in a reflective mood today. I have a number of items or topics I’d love to discuss and I’m just here thinking which way do I begin? So what I’d like to do is share a little bit of a story of my journey this week and experience but actually there’s something else I want to go over before I do that.

    I had put up a post.

    and I’d mentioned astrology in one of my sessions. I’m not an astrologer. I’ve read astrology for nearly 26 odd years now. I use it for myself, for self-reflection, tapping into the time and the season, but I in no way, shape or form am I an astrologer. And I’m always learning something new. So I had written up and did a podcast on my experience, but I realised I’d spoken about a transit

    that was not right at all so I ended up deleting the podcast. Needless to say it was a reminder that I need to be mindful, making sure that I talk about what I fully understand, what I fully comprehend, doesn’t take away the experience that I was going through, I just mentioned the wrong transit. And that being said…

    There is a development this week for my life. had found that I I’ve already moved away from the algorithms, not that I will never rejoin social media, but I’ve already removed myself from the algorithms whilst I continue to build my practice, build my business and take what I learned from social media and make it my own.

    AI has also been a tool that I have gotten used to tap into, so I’m on a bit of a hiatus from using it at the moment. Yes, I will continue to use it on platforms like this for blogs and so forth, but I was getting a bit too dependent, I suppose, in asking it questions. So that I will be given a little bit of a break as I move forward, along with astrology.

    for sure because I found with astrology it’s been very good at telling me shortfalls, down seasons, all of that was very right. ⁓ Being a cynic, the things that I didn’t like so much seem to be more true than the things that I liked but it’s my understanding they all balance each other out. My spirit has been saying to me for a while, listen to my spirit.

    It was the same when I was on TikTok for a couple of years. I would go on and I’d have motivation and encouragement from others to keep going, keep going live, three hours, four hours. And as much as I was turning up, showing up, I was not progressing as I thought I would be able to or would have liked.

    It took me a couple of years to understand and realise why. And in fact, no matter what I did at that time, there wasn’t going to be any level of progress that I wanted. I progressed in the end. This year, April, I was offered the role of creator network manager.

    and I took it on, very excited about it and in getting access to Backstage I realised that actually all of this work I can do on my own without the need of Backstage at all.

    there was a lot of changes going on in the platform, people were getting violated left, right and centre because of those changes, it wasn’t that they were doing anything wrong. I myself experienced one of my posts that was just giving directions on how to apply to the Creator Network and I still have the screenshot now and what they could do as creators if they didn’t want to join or could not join the Creator Network because I still have my coaching practice how they could apply and that particular

    post received a violation. I queried it three times. On the third time I was told, well apparently I’m permanently banned.

    Now I didn’t actually lose access to the account, I didn’t actually experience a full ban, I did raise it and apparently it was cleared but the violation remained and I made my decision at that point that I’d have to leave the post. So that’s my story on that and what I will say to you is dependency.

    When we’re working towards independent self-employment, I mean, that is what I’m working towards full-time self-employment. At the moment, I’ve not been able to achieve it. I still rely on contract work, getting jobs, whatever it is really to pay my mortgage, my bills in between. So the vision for full-time self-employment has not gone away. I often work long days.

    helping myself build my practice focusing on my online offering and astrology has been something I’ve been tapping into over the last few weeks because of frustration whereby things have not moved as fast as I would have liked and I can tell you astrology explains it all.

    literally even to the point that over the last two weeks I lost visibility online because the websites that I had up probably three weeks ago I decided to restructure how I was doing things and in making that decision the service or the host that looks after my websites helped me to make some changes which meant that my websites were offline.

    I basically merged a number of websites into one and that decision meant that there was no visibility.

    and because I had a subdomain on my directory website that too went down which I only cottoned onto probably about a week or so after. Last week I was pushing again like when am I going to get access to the website remember I’m not on social media I have one account on Instagram which I do nothing on and Benneville but there is no interaction at this time.

    and lo and behold Friday I had access to the hop directory I’m still to

    get my energy together to start building a new website where I’m hoping to meet creators and small businesses to work with them, share my knowledge that I gained on social media so that they have a better start if they choose to join social media to progress their life’s livelihoods, their careers, their brand and so forth. So.

    astrology has helped tapping into the time and the season however I have had a strong sense and urge that actually I need to really start listening to myself because far and beyond whatever I read I’m the one that’s living this life experience I know you can tell me this is X and Y and Z is going to happen but I know

    how I am best placed to deal with a scenario. It’s just like I’ve mentioned the pandemic. The world, we had a pandemic, but we all had different experiences. I did not experience the loss that many did during that time, not in the same way. However, around that time, my sister,

    was really unwell, she’s been unwell for a while but she was really unwell and my aunt was distant. A few family members distant and it’s only now I realised that many were having health issues. My aunt still with real challenges of her own till today.

    So it wasn’t the pandemic or COVID that affected me. There were familial family issues, health issues that was keeping people separated and apart, which we’re still consolidating right now.

    So this is where I am, there’s life changes. I’ll be putting AI aside for a season, a period. I’ve already disconnected my TikTok accounts for a season and I’m focusing on my career, self-employment and building foundations. So when the season comes to a close, I’m ready for the next step.

    You are with Lita, goddess of growth. Do come in and join me.

    Embracing Internal Authority: A Journey with Lita, Goddess Of Growth

    Introduction: In a world where external influences often dictate our paths, Lita, Goddess Of Growth, shares her journey of embracing internal authority. Her story is a testament to the power of personal growth, astrology, and self-employment.

    Listening to Your Spirit: Lita emphasizes the importance of tuning into one’s own spirit and intuition. She shares how stepping away from social media algorithms has allowed her to build a business that aligns with her true self.

    Astrology as a Guide: With over 26 years of experience, Lita uses astrology not as a prediction tool but as a means of self-reflection. It helps her understand personal and professional cycles, providing insights into the ebbs and flows of life.

    Building Strong Foundations: Self-employment requires more than just passion; it demands strong foundations. Lita discusses the role of AI as a tool for personal development, highlighting the need for balance in its use.

    Conclusion: Lita’s journey is a reminder that true growth comes from within. By embracing internal authority, we can navigate life’s challenges with confidence and clarity.

    Subscribe Now: Join Lita on her journey and discover the power of internal authority. Subscribe to her insights and start your path to personal growth today.

    The Lesson of the “Backstage”

    In April 2025, I took on a role as a Creator Network Manager. While I was excited to gain access to the “backstage” of a major platform, the experience provided a vital realisation: I can do all of this work on my own. I do not need a third-party platform to facilitate the connections I am built to make.

    When a simple instructional post on my account was met with a violation notice and a threatened ban, my decision was solidified. Relying on an entity that can suppress your voice at any moment is the opposite of sovereignty. I am taking what I learned from social media and making it my own through House of Sovren™.

    Taking a Strategic Hiatus

    To truly listen to my own spirit, I am stepping back from tools that have become crutches.

    • Astrology: While I have used astrology for self-reflection for 26 years, I am taking a break from it. It is excellent at explaining “down seasons,” but I must be the one to live the experience and decide how to navigate it.
    • AI and Technology: I am placing AI aside for a season. While it is a helpful tool for blogging, I want to avoid over-dependency and ensure my strategies come from a place of Internal Authority.
    • Consolidated Presence: I have merged my various websites into one central hub. Although this caused a temporary loss of visibility, it was a necessary step to build a stronger, singular foundation for Goddess of Growth.

    Building Real Foundations

    My focus is now on my online offering and building a new website where I can meet creators and small businesses. I want to share the knowledge I gained “backstage” so others can have a better start on social media—if they choose to join it at all.

    “Far and beyond whatever I read, I am the one living this life experience. I know how I am best placed to deal with a scenario.” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Consolidating the Personal and Professional

    We are all consolidating the changes of the last few years. Whether it is familial health challenges or career shifts, we must be ready for the next step. By disconnecting from the “noise” of algorithms and external predictions, I am ensuring that when the new season presents itself, I am fully aligned and ready.

    Are you relying too heavily on external “experts” or systems to tell you how to run your life? I invite you to reclaim your Internal Authority. Connect with Goddess of Growth below and share how you are building your own foundation for independence.

    Summary

    Lita, Goddess Of Growth, shares her reflective journey focusing on personal growth, astrology, and the pursuit of self-employment. She discusses her experiences with astrology over 26 years, her decision to step away from social media algorithms, and her use of AI as a tool for personal development. Lita emphasizes the importance of listening to one’s own spirit and intuition, especially in the context of self-employment and building a sustainable career.

    Keywords

    personal growth, astrology, self-employment, AI, intuition

    Takeaways

    • Astrology has been a tool for self-reflection for 26 years.
    • Stepping away from social media algorithms to build a business.
    • AI is a tool for personal development, but balance is key.
    • Listening to one’s own spirit is crucial for personal growth.
    • Self-employment requires building strong foundations.
    • Astrology helps in understanding personal and professional cycles.
    • Reflecting on personal experiences leads to growth.
    • Balancing technology use with personal intuition is important.
    • Building a business requires stepping away from dependency.
    • Personal growth involves continuous learning and adaptation.

    Title Options

    • Reflective Journey with Lita, Goddess Of Growth
    • Astrology and Personal Growth Insights
    • Building a Business Beyond Algorithms
    • AI and Intuition: A Balanced Approach
    • Self-Employment and Personal Growth
    • Astrology’s Role in Personal Development
    • Listening to Your Spirit for Growth
    • Balancing Technology and Intuition
    • Building Strong Foundations for Success
    • Continuous Learning and Personal Growth

    Sound bites

    • Astrology has been a tool for 26 years.
    • Stepping away from algorithms to build a business.
    • AI is a tool, but balance is key.
    • Listening to one’s spirit is crucial.
    • Self-employment requires strong foundations.
    • Astrology helps in understanding cycles.
    • Reflecting leads to growth.
    • Balancing tech with intuition is important.
    • Building a business requires independence.
    • Growth involves continuous learning.

    Chapters

    • 00:00:17 Introduction to Reflective Journey
    • 00:00:38 Astrology and Self-Reflection
    • 00:01:39 Stepping Away from Algorithms
    • 00:01:53 AI and Personal Development
    • 00:04:43 Pursuit of Self-Employment
    • 00:05:12 Building a Business
    • 00:07:25 Astrology’s Role in Growth
    • 00:09:21 Focusing on Career and Foundations
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    I curate tools, brands, and visions that align with **House of Sovren™**. Please note that this platform features affiliate partnerships; I only champion services that have stood test of my own **Season of Growth**.

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  • Season of Growth Empowerment Diaries - Lita Goddess of Growth

    Personal Season of Growth

    The 2025 Revelation: Navigating My Personal Season of Growth

    Welcome to Empowerment Diaries®. I am Lita, Goddess of Growth.

    Lita, Goddess of Growth (00:00)
    Lita, goddess of growth here, welcome to Empowerment Diaries. And as I declared in my last podcast, I have created this space, a space for clarification, my own clarification chamber. There will be times I’m here just talking to myself, reflecting, and there will be other times where I will be sharing stories of transformation.

    And today is very much a reflection day. As I enter this clarification chamber, I’m listening in the background. There is sounds of cars going by me. I live in a village and most of the time around this time the road is really quiet. I noticed just before

    Christmas, probably about a week before.

    the cars, the speed outside the cars, the amount of vehicles passing had increased, should we say. It was a, there was a moment of annoyance. Fortunately, I have a three bedroom home, where two rooms, there’s two rooms at the back. The one I sleep in is at the front. So when I heard the cars passing, I was able to get some kind of respite.

    in the third room.

    But there’s nothing like your own bed, is there? 2025, as I notice, so many companies sending me synopsis of the year that we’ve had together or that they’ve had the milestones, purchases, experiences shared. I had a couple of lovely clips from Riverside FM. Buzzsprout, who I was with earlier this year.

    They sent me an email but I’m not sure if I’ll receive the summary. Either way, I started podcasting early this year. February I believe was the first episode. And it really has been a journey, this journey of life. Started the year age 50.

    A drought is what I was in from 2022.

    and a lot of time spent online trying to make up differences financially.

    led me to accept an opportunity in March of this year, started officially in April as a creator network manager for a social media platform.

    The opportunity was one I was not working towards and I liked the idea of being able to support and champion others.

    Getting access to backstage was…

    a closure to a cycle that I had been on for a while. One of my reasons for starting this podcast was to have a space and environment to speak, to share, to connect. As I was finding whilst on social media, long content was often deleted.

    no appeal would override that fact, often losing content which I was encouraged to do organically.

    And before you know it, you’re encouraged to get involved with trends.

    a whole life focused on the next best time to post and the hope that this one post will help you connect with more people or best case scenario, go viral.

    My year started with a part-time role I had taken in 2024 to keep the wolves away from my dog. And my plan was this was the year for me to go into full-time self-employment.

    By July, I was in a hard place financially and I had to succumb to turning my part-time hours to full-time hours so that I would be in position to earn more commission doing the work that I had intended to leave.

    at some stage.

    I also found myself in a position of initially rejecting a loan offer to only have to go back to request that loan approximately a week after when I lost income. And in taking that loan, I opened my mind and my life and presence to hear feedback.

    about the journey of my life. The feedback came from my mother and there was a lot of truths, half-truths and lies.

    But I had put myself in that situation and the experience led me to understand never to put myself in that situation again.

    It was a coming of season moment in my life because I was able at 50 to finally acknowledge the things that I thought was right. No more did I have anyone around me to say, ⁓ you’re just imagining it. It’s not true. And I saw things come full circle. So I learned the names that I was called.

    Definitely projections. I also could see in real time how it was that someone could call you stupid when deep down they feel as if they are. It was a healing moment for sure and it allowed me to be free even though I have the financial debt hanging over me.

    of which I still need to repay.

    The clearing of stories has been something that has encouraged a greater power within me.

    Whilst this was all going on, I was building what I thought would be my very own creator network, offering more honesty and support away from social media. I had already decided after closing my account on social media around August time that I would focus on real support.

    and tools to cover the pain points that we were all experiencing in these spaces that we are made to believe will encourage us to grow mentally, financially, socially.

    I started working on my very own website, not for the first time. I’ve done this before for many businesses prior. But this was the first time that I felt impassioned about the work that I was really doing. And it took many twists and turns as I put

    not so much the business plan, but the structure of the website together. And in that, I also created a space to showcase creators who have joined as a member of the collective that I’ve created a guild to support creators to do better, be better. Starting with our stories.

    really zoning in on those so that no trend, no platform can override our essence, our core and what it is that we stand for. Because ultimately trends will go, platforms will go, we are the ones, the brand, the person, the individual, the collective that remains.

    I’ve continued to build and in building I found that I was loving my voice a bit more, not just in a voice for recording, but also to be able to blog. So somewhere along the line in the year, I decided to separate what I am doing, one as a creator or one as a business. The limited company that I had gone and used in a partnership

    with the social media platform as a creator network, the director of, I changed the name to Lita Goddess of Growth Limited. The company itself was registered only in March of this year. Fortunately, just before I agreed to apply for the creator network opportunity. And recently I changed it to Lita Goddess of Growth Limited, which was accepted.

    And in the season of growth, many stops and starts.

    I’ve continued to build a platform, foundation to support creativity and growth, not just my own, but anyone that desires to be part of a collective focused on sovereignty.

    This year there has been a great focus on ownership.

    responsibility.

    Interestingly around April time I managed to receive a plot.

    do a bit of gardening. I registered for that plot 2020 and at the time the person I’d registered with had emailed to say actually the waiting list is long. Often the plots become available on death. It could be possibly 10 years before I have an opportunity to get

    plot on the allotment but lo and behold April I received the call I thought actually it was perfect timing

    I got involved.

    in the ⁓ clear up of the plots which apparently previous owners had let go into a state.

    I found I was going there for some kind of peace and sanctuary and to get involved in the swell. But actually, whilst being present, I had a lot of guidance, help, support, and which led into a lot of boundaries crossed. An offer of help to clear the land meant my voice was suppressed as to what I wanted and how I wanted

    the land to be. Things were removed that I had not agreed to and it had just become a bit of a nightmare. And when I fed back the idea that actually I hope now the land is clear that everyone will be calm and okay for me to just get on with things, the reaction wasn’t as I would have liked or expected. So I returned the key.

    £30 a year bargain but it just wasn’t a place that I could call a century.

    in my own little bijou garden. It’s I’ve Let It Go Fallow.

    I have put things away, pots away, the excitement of gardening, it went down a bit actually. So many endings.

    and I’m in my cottage, small place in a village, moved here 2020 and it was about March of this year really I started to notice that my furniture in my home is tired. Maybe a reflection of myself, I’ve been working long days sometimes early morning till 12 one two o’clock at night

    attempting to get this website, my podcast and so where I want them and I will tell you the list doesn’t go down. Each time I work on something, something else comes up to guide me onto what it is I need to focus on to make things better, more sound.

    For them here, 2025, the year of revelation, the year of healing, the year of closure.

    And I know that as we come to the last few days of this season, this chapter, I am being prepared for new beginnings. Mind you, I know the weather. So we say of my own personal season and I know as much as December is the end of the year, my own season that

    has ended with a drought doesn’t fully come to an end until around April 2026. So I know that there are some things that I still need to almost grin and bear, but more for surrender, more with a.

    ⁓ the breath.

    understanding.

    Because ultimately the land is such where I am being encouraged to discard rather than to mend or even to store away things that’s decaying. It’s time for the full overhaul right now.

    I have work to keep the walls away from the door and at the same time I’m being encouraged to develop my career, my space.

    My purpose 2025.

    And as we come to the start of the new year, no, I don’t do resolutions at all.

    What I am doing at this time is focusing on the dormant space, the clear out. I am definitely looking forward to the spring. And I am doing my best, even in my 50s, to acknowledge there is no beating the system, there’s no beating the season. Even fighting it just exhausts oneself.

    Who knows, maybe in this lifetime I will learn to flow with however the season goes.

    I hope 2025 has been one of resolution for you too.

    Be open to listening, listening to what is said and what goes unsaid. And ultimately, whatever is present is what is present. Thank you for listening. This is Lita goddess of growth. Bless you.

    **Summary:** In this episode of Empowerment Diaries, Lita, the Goddess of Growth, reflects on her personal journey of transformation and empowerment. She shares insights on creating a space for self-expression, the importance of storytelling, and the power of healing and closure. Lita discusses her experiences with financial challenges, personal growth, and the significance of listening to both spoken and unspoken truths.

    Keywords:

    Empowerment, Personal Growth, Reflection, Transformation, Healing, Storytelling, Self-expression, Financial Challenges, Listening, Closure

    Takeaways:
    • Creating a space for self-expression is vital.
    • Storytelling encourages personal growth.
    • Healing moments lead to freedom.
    • Financial challenges can be transformative.
    • Listening to unspoken truths is powerful.
    • Empowerment comes from within.
    • Reflection leads to understanding.
    • Closure is a part of growth.
    • Transformation is a journey.
    • Personal growth requires courage.
    Title Options:
    • Empowerment Diaries: A Journey of Growth
    • Reflections on Personal Transformation
    • The Power of Storytelling and Healing
    • Finding Freedom Through Financial Challenges
    • Listening to Unspoken Truths
    • Empowerment from Within
    • The Journey of Personal Growth
    • Understanding Through Reflection
    • Closure and Growth
    • Courage in Transformation
    Sound bites:
    • Welcome to Empowerment Diaries.
    • A journey of life.
    • A space to speak, share, connect.
    • Never put myself in that situation again.
    • A healing moment for sure.
    • Clearing stories encourages power.
    • Starting with our stories.
    • 2025: Year of revelation, healing, closure.
    • Be open to listening.
    • What goes unsaid.
    Chapters:
    • 00:00:00 Introduction to Empowerment Diaries
    • 00:02:19 The Journey of Life
    • 00:03:27 Creating a Space for Connection
    • 00:06:15 Lessons from Experience
    • 00:07:12 Healing and Freedom
    • 00:07:34 The Power of Storytelling
    • 00:09:31 Starting with Our Stories
    • 00:15:18 2025: A Year of Revelation
    • 00:18:17 Listening to the Unspoken

    As I sit in my Clarification Chamber™, I am reflecting on 2025—a year that has been a profound Season of Growth. It began in a drought that had persisted since 2022, but it is ending in a space of deep healing, closure, and structural ownership.

    Ownership and the Limited Company

    This year, I took the step of reclaiming my professional identity. I changed the name of my limited company to Lita Goddess of Growth Limited. This wasn’t just a paperwork exercise; it was an act of sovereignty. After years of working “for free” on social media or in partnerships that didn’t align with my ethics, I have finally built a foundation that I own.

    Lessons from the Allotment: Boundaries in Growth

    In April, right at the start of this Season of Growth, I finally received a plot on the local allotment—a call I had been waiting for since 2020. I thought it would be a sanctuary. However, I quickly learned that “help” often comes with a price. When my voice was suppressed regarding how I wanted my land to be managed, I chose to return the key.

    Even a £30-a-year bargain is too expensive if it costs you your peace. This taught me a vital lesson for the Sovren Creator Network Guild™: we must build spaces where the individual’s essence and core are never overridden by the collective or the “trends” of the day.

    The Healing Power of Truth

    2025 forced me to look at the “truths, half-truths, and lies” within my own family dynamic. By 50, I was finally able to see projections for what they were. I realised that when someone calls you “stupid,” it is often because they feel that way about themselves.

    Acknowledging this was a pivotal moment in my Season of Growth. It cleared the stories that were holding me back, allowing me to build Sovren Studios™ and my websites with a passion I haven’t felt in years.

    The Dormant Phase: Preparing for 2026

    While the calendar year is ending, my personal Season of Growth and the drought I’ve been navigating won’t fully transition until April 2026.

    • Discarding the Decay: I am looking at my furniture and my old habits and realising they are “tired.” It is time for a full overhaul.
    • Surrender over Struggle: I am learning that there is no beating the system or the season. Fighting the natural ebb and flow only leads to exhaustion.
    • Focusing on the Foundation: I am working long hours—sometimes until 2 am—not out of desperation, but to ensure the structure of the Sovren Collective™ is sound.

    “2025 was the year of revelation and healing. I am not doing resolutions; I am focusing on the dormant space and the clear-out, waiting for the spring.” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Join Sovren Collective

    As we move into the final days of this chapter, I invite you to listen to what is being said and what is left unsaid in your own life. If you are ready to move toward sovereignty, the Sovren Creator Network Guild™ is here to support your journey.

    Thank you for being part of my Season of Growth.

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  • Clarification Chamber

    Clarification Chamber™

    Clarification Chamber™: Navigating Blocks on the Path to Sovereignty

    Welcome to Empowerment Diaries®. I am Lita, Goddess of Growth.

    ## Summary

    In this episode, Lita, the “goddess of growth,” shares her personal journey and reflections on life, equality, and self-actualization. She discusses the challenges of podcasting, the importance of layers in clothing, and her experiences with diversity and equality in the workplace. Lita also explores the concept of time and season, emphasizing the need for self-expression and understanding one’s own path. Through her stories, she encourages listeners to embrace their unique journeys and find clarity in their own lives.

    Keywords

    Lita, podcasting, equality, self-actualization, diversity, personal journey, empowerment, time and season, self-expression, clarity

    Takeaways

    • Layers in clothing are essential for comfort.
    • Podcasting can be challenging but rewarding.
    • Diversity and equality require genuine efforts.
    • Self-expression is crucial for personal growth.
    • Understanding one’s path is key to clarity.
    • Time and season influence our life journey.
    • Embrace unique journeys for self-actualization.
    • Challenges can lead to personal growth.
    • Reflecting on life provides valuable insights.
    • Sovereignty and self-awareness are important.

    Title Options

    • Embracing Growth with Lita
    • The Journey of Self-Actualization
    • Finding Clarity in Diversity
    • Podcasting and Personal Growth
    • Layers of Life and Equality
    • Empowerment Through Self-Expression
    • Navigating Time and Season
    • The Complexity of Equality
    • Reflections on Personal Journeys
    • Sovereignty and Self-Awareness

    Sound bites

    “Layers have become important.” “Podcasting is something I enjoy.” “Diversity requires genuine efforts.” “Self-expression is crucial.” “Understanding one’s path is key.” “Time and season influence us.” “Embrace unique journeys.” “Challenges lead to growth.” “Reflecting provides insights.” “Sovereignty is important.”

    Chapters

    • 00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections
    • 00:00:00 Challenges in Podcasting
    • 00:00:00 Diversity and Equality
    • 00:00:00 Time, Season, and Self-Expression
    • 00:00:00 Reflections and Personal Growth

    Lita (00:01)
    Lita goddess of growth here, thank you so much for joining me.

    1. Can’t decide if I should be purchasing more t-shirts at this time or cardigans layers. I switch between being really hot to temperate. Layers have become important. I continually remember the aunties of old

    purchasing their cardigans from stores like BHS, ⁓ &S, and always telling us as children, young people, carry your layers. The choice for materials have changed. Polyester kills me.

    But here we go. Podcasting is something I enjoy doing, but I have been struggling. My brain does not work in the same way or perceived right way. I suppose I expected to be able to capture my thoughts, sit down and share them. But often I find I have a whole conversation with myself.

    come to record and the capture is just not the same. So I want to do something a little different and when I say a little different I have prepared some kind of a note but I struggle even always with my notes. I hate scripted material, I have used them on occasion, I try to do bullets and I just get so

    Yeah, I start writing essays when I’m supposed to be doing bullets, but here we go. And because of the way I create, the way I think and process.

    I’ve come up with a new idea and I’d like to use this space to launch it under empowerment diaries and this will be my very own chamber a chamber of clarification my very own clarification chamber excuse me

    if there is a bit of a muddle. That’s just how my brain works. But often I have these conversations with myself and it helps me get a lot clearer as to how the system works. I hope I can get into the flow as I was in my mind and the reason for me sharing it

    in this podcast environment is because I’m sure there’s others that have these thoughts flowing through their minds and in an attempt to connect the dots maybe together we can come together with a better understanding maybe even a few resolutions.

    I took to them some notes and how the thought process began and hopefully next time I can just come on raw and share the thoughts as they come.

    I was thinking about a hairdressers that I was in. It was the second one that I’d found in my whole lifetime that was able to do my hair. Unbelievable, I’m sure, to many. When you are a black woman reliant on black hairdressers, not many of them know how to do hair. They taught how to do

    processes and you will have some that’s good at braiding, good at relaxing, good at colouring. Many of us prefer to go to male hairdressers because there’s this idea that they will dress us how a man would like to see us. But on this occasion in my early 30s I found a hairdresser’s owned by a woman.

    same heritage as my own. She was born in Jamaica, I wasn’t, but same heritage. And the first time she did my hair I felt amazing. I went on a Saturday, I was waiting for a while. I’ll talk about that on another podcast. Many of us have had to wait many hours have we not to get seen to be placed in a chair.

    And as I sat there waiting, she was looking after a young woman, mixed race woman with long hair and complimenting on her and her hair and so I believe the young woman was a model and she had got into acting of sorts. And the hairdresser was complimenting her and guiding her, find a good man, make sure he has money, make sure you buy your house.

    keep something for yourself like really great advice. I sat in the background listening and nodding and agreeing and affirming and so forth. Today I’m drinking tea, bit of sugar in. Most days I don’t have sugar these days because yeah my lifestyle I need to change what it is I’m doing.

    Excuse me. So it was my turn to go into the chair at which point I was asked, you know, what do you do for living? What’s your aspiration? These are my words, not hers. I explained I was working in the NHS. I was trying to put some money aside so that could buy my own home. And believe you me, the woman that was giving so much advice and guidance to the person before me went silent.

    She prepped my hair with the colour, left me whilst the colour was penetrating. You know, she did my hair, did a good job. I think actually I remember her telling me to come back for treatment. That was it. There was no guidance, no motivational tips, none of it. Silence. Not long after, I remember going to see a house near Bromley.

    that was going through probate. Couldn’t afford that and a few months later I branched out, stretched my search and then I found my home in Royal Tumpridge Wells, my first purchase.

    My thoughts took me on to this debate about diversity and equality, the US clamping down on schemes, saying that it’s not fair. I also note the companies that have reduced their own schemes in the UK and around the world for fear of the wrath of the Trump administration. Little do they know.

    that actually, in my opinion, a lot of these schemes encourage us to mask the realities, the realities of what people really think of others. Legislation has been put in place for companies to showcase how diverse they are. But in reality, often,

    The legislation has encouraged covert behaviour and tokenism.

    There is a silence when asked about the ratio of people of colour in a company that’s focused on diversity being at the bottom of the ladder versus those that are at the top. And it’s not just people of colour, we’re talking about women also.

    No matter the measure, we will still find in most of the cases the white man or at least a man at the top of the pyramid.

    I reflected on the very first jobs, my job search after completing my degree in business. And I remember going to a recruitment agency and the woman, I cannot remember her name so long ago, but she was really in awe at the fact that I had a degree. I started my degree a couple of years after I went into the workplace. In fact, I’ve worked

    for many years before doing my degree. But office roles, I had a couple of years experience and I also continued working in office environments whilst studying my degree. So whereas some were leaving without the experience, I had it on my CV. And this woman was confident, given my skills, that she would be easy, she would easily place me into a role. And bless her, she did send me forward.

    to interviews. But there was this one interview and I cannot remember the name of the company, very plush offices, I went as a personal assistant to a director and in those days they always told you when you go you know you have your pleasantries be polite manners etc if they were to ask you what your five-year plan was be prepared for that be ⁓ accommodating to any

    extra responsibilities and duties and so. And I remember going to the interview and sitting down and usual interview process and he had asked me questions almost as if he was pivoting me to another role. And he happened to call, which I learned was his wife. She stood at the door and they were talking with each other about these roles that he

    had put to me that I could be interested in developing into. And she stood there, yes, yes, yes. But there was just something a bit off about the conversation. And even today, as I reflected on it, I still can’t fathom what it is I missed. But I know I missed something crucial. Today at 51, I question why she did not come into the room. There was no formal handshake or anything.

    She stood in the doorway talking to her husband. They spoke to each other, laughed. It was almost like they were sharing a secret joke. I left the interview, the recruitment agency, the agent asked how it was. said it sounded really great. They were offering me different roles and what have you. Anyway, that was the very last time I heard from the agency. No more jobs were given to me to interview for.

    I probably called once or twice to see what was going on. She herself didn’t speak to me and they hadn’t anything on their books apparently. Early 20s.

    And then I can’t tell you how many months after because I took on a role as a personal assistant in a chauffeuring company. Learned a lot there.

    The universe was showing me don’t look at trappings. That was a place I learned there were so many men out there driving fancy cars, Lamborghinis and all sorts. These were all leased items used to transfer princes, sheiks and what have you across London. So we look at these people thinking that they have and a couple of the guys unfortunately didn’t even have their own home. Right.

    broken relationships because their hours are so long. They’re out most of the time trying to make a living as a chauffeur.

    However, I did get a job for an auction house as a personal assistant. And when I took on the role, it was an ex officer that had recruited me. And I remember a woman, mixed race from another building had been tasked with coming to meet and greet me to let me know how the role works because she was a personal assistant as well.

    And she let me know how privileged I was to be in such a position because there was very few people of colour in the role.

    The role itself, I didn’t stay long, probably about a year. And in that time, I remember creating an event as I was tasked for others to come and look at the unit that we were looking after. And another ex-police officer had come in and in front of me had questioned when it was that the auction house had started letting people like me in.

    Even to this day, no one has actually come to apologize or say anything or even to address what it is I heard. I couldn’t believe it myself. But I got through it.

    So we think about the blockages that we experience in our life.

    and a lot of us still find our way through. And it’s easy to project out and say, it’s because of racism, it’s because of the employer, it’s because of the environment or whatever the reason is, the government, what have you. But then we go back to our parents and we see our parents, those that have abandoned their children or those that keep their children, but for one reason or other bully them.

    create scapegoats in the family, give others preferential treatment. Our parents actually prepare us for the outside world, the world that we enter when we’re looking to others to provide us with work and an income.

    And I will say often when I hear about racism, bullying, abuse, I always say look to the home because often these things started in the home. When we listen to how people in slave environments, prison environments, and they get overseers to carry out the work.

    the master. The overseer is carrying out the abuse.

    Having the prison guards whip prisoners, beat them to the pulp, blind them, kill them, even today.

    We are people that have come together to carry out punishment on behalf of others. Some of us are doing it for ourselves. So if we have that layer, emitting out punishment, what can we expect from anyone else that doesn’t identify with us as if it was themselves?

    Equal treatment, in my opinion, only works if we acknowledge that we are all different, that we are all in this world living in different worlds. There’s a part in our education that’s often missing. The missing part, in my opinion, is the aspect of time and season. We are all on different channels. We are all in different cycles.

    and some of the cycles overlap. So there is this presumption that we’re all in it together. But the better picture, there is an illustration I’ve seen in my lifetime over the last few years. I believe on social media where you’ve got a race and you have one person with a lock holding their leg to the track. Different things stopping people from getting to the finish line.

    And that is the reality of life. We all are on a track, but we have different things that we’re here to The Complexity of Equality and Self-Actualisation through, to learn, to process. Meaning that actually the finish line is different for all of us. In fighting for freedom for women, there is this monolith given and it’s expected, you’ve got free ⁓ freedom. You’ve got your rights now.

    So just get on with it. You can fight, you can join the army, you can do engineering. It’s all open to you. This is what you fought for. I think the freedom fighters missed the point. At the end of slavery, there were some afraid to leave the plantation. They were worried that they would not be able to survive on their own. Many slaves left with nothing as they went on to build lives.

    And it’s very easy to judge those that ended up in prostitution, starting whorehouses, starting liquor stores, deviant behaviour to make an income. However, when you’re starting from nothing, you have only what you have to trade to make an income to progress and go on.

    And in asking for equality, we have to understand that there are some that want to do.

    things, should we say, to make an income.

    Equality should allow people a level of self-expression where so long as they’re not hurting another, they’re in a position to self-actualise, be who and what they are choosing to be.

    Not every woman wants to go to work. Not every woman that has a child wants to return to the workplace and not every woman that has a child wants to stay home with children. And we now know there are men out there and we’ve always known there are men out there that don’t want to go to work. They’re happy to stay with children. They speak about this new man that is a stay at home man. This is in the West.

    In other family dynamics the man would have been at home anyway, maybe outside doing chores or work, but he would have his eye on the household. Not every man has been able to find traditional work. So child care, cooking, caring is part of being a family member. In Jamaica

    For my generation, majority of the men were taught how to cook.

    Many I saw learning how to hand wash. There are skills that we all have been taught that the next generation haven’t because everything is on my machine. But men, generally speaking, can do most things around the house.

    Interestingly in the West we have feminism, we have equality and somehow we have this set up where women, whether they marry or not, are responsible for the majority of the chores in the household even if they do the exact same hours in the workplace. And in the workplace with the exact same hours they’re still getting paid less. It is known

    that in this economic crisis, more men have lost jobs than women. My suspicion is because women are paid less. And in that pyramid, there will be people of colour that have experienced more unemployment than others, depending on the role, of course, because if the employer sees that people of colour can do the work

    and get paid less, they’re more likely to keep the role.

    equality and diversity. The lens is wrong.

    We need to teach that we don’t have a right to work.

    We don’t have a right to the minimum wage. In fact, employers, I do believe, need to shift their lens. Why do they think they are doing the best for employees by paying the minimum wage or just above it, making them a good employer? Why isn’t the business model one where what the employee does is factored in?

    to the cost of goods and services being sold. Why are employees seen as such a cheap commodity?

    Why are we not paying a living wage so that employees are a great example of the company that they are representing and working for? Why is it okay to have employees that are remaining in poverty?

    We’re nothing more than slaves in some of these corporations. And even at retirement age, we do not have enough to live sovereign lives.

    Pride is misplaced.

    Having the law like a parent, we were trained were we not. We start with our parents, the school system, that is the training. It’s not about the subjects. It’s the training, learning how to listen, learning how we can be steered towards what the society wants us to do.

    Having that training, we learn not to challenge the structure as it is. The pill of diversity is one that’s easy to swallow when we believe people are doing things to address injustice. But on the ground, we see in offices where men are turned away from jobs.

    I’ve personally heard one of my managers shout out he didn’t want any Leroy’s in his company. I was in my late mid 20s at the time.

    There is a trend of getting cheap labour and of CEOs being proud that they’re providing income for others, not acknowledging that in this day and age many are not able to feed themselves or live the sovereign lives that they would like to. Divertity is one of the many distractions that encourages blank faces.

    People do just enough to showcase how diverse and how equal they are. I think about the cleaner sacked for having two jobs over 16 years cleaning for others, two businesses, government bodies. Imagine.

    She takes them to court and loses her appeal.

    because apparently in the UK we have the work time directive. So the system tells you clearly they’re not intending on you finding freedom in a legal way, in a way that you find comfortable to do. They’re very clear on how they see you and how you fit into the system. It’s a pity this woman didn’t use her great skill and talent to acknowledge

    There are some spaces and places that see us naturally as cleaners, comfortable in those positions, and they will be happy and willing to pay us handsomely to do those roles. She could quite easily have used that 16 years to go to private households or even start a cleaning company cleaning businesses, and she would have been paid more.

    in those hours that she worked for two employers actually provided jobs for others also

    more money less hours. We’re not taught early how to be sovereign. The main thing that people understand when they go to another country is to provide the services that the people in the country can’t or don’t want to do. There’s two ways to do it. Higher level education you’ll have that because the locals can’t afford internet or whatever it is that you’re

    presenting or lower level services. In the rich world, many people don’t want to do manual work. Not all of us want to do it. But there were some that was doing that from where they were for nothing. They’re happy to come and do what people don’t want to do for a good enough income. More money earned than someone doing a basic office role.

    but yet we will look down on them whilst they’re creating their space and time for sovereignty. Many a cleaner has purchased house not just in the UK but abroad, building empires and legacies for themselves, their children and families also.

    I reflect on the blocks we experience in our lives from our friends, our family, our associates.

    We also have to remember that we have blocked others too.

    It is a part of our cycle. There are times when I have really just distanced myself, protecting myself from any kind of pain or hurt, just cut off.

    But there are blocks that on the surface make us believe that we are failing. Whether we are women, women of colour, whether we live in the north, whether we are single parents.

    The education missed is that we all have our time and season. And if we knew that, the comparison wouldn’t hurt as much. When we attend a job, as I’ve done, five years promised a path to promotion, but it wasn’t for me. Always the verbal nods and the carrot, do this, do that, do that, took five years. And the promise of

    getting married and all these things that I was planning at the time for me to finally leave a dead-end job, a job that was going nowhere.

    We all need to be open to cleaning our lens. When we’re looking outside, we need to question inside. Why does that irritate me? What is it about what that person said that bothers me so much? When have I done that before? How has that situation affected me before? Why is it affecting me now? Failure is the path to success.

    knowing our season even more so.

    Today I am mapping out my journey of life. Maybe it’s something that happens in your 50s. You reflect, you look back and it’s a different kind of looking back. Years ago I reflected a lot on my childhood and it was like a horror movie continually replaying in my mind. I found emotional freedom techniques in my 30s and I can breathe.

    But these reflections I’m getting is almost like a picture of life. ⁓ that’s why that didn’t work out. OK, so if this happened and that didn’t happen, gosh, what would life be like today? That kind of thinking. I’m mapping out my journey past, doing my best to be present.

    One of the magnifying moments, my very own magnifying moments in my life, I will say it again, I’m sure I’ve said it on this podcast before, was my second marriage. It was the kind of weirdest of things, but each time I look at it, it was a blessing in disguise. He came into my life on my fourth year working for a company where it was really a dead end. I was being coached to

    manage the team to be a manager and I was going through all these markers to proceed but there was always some kind of a block. Even though I was performing with the role had measures, quality check-in, even though I was getting my hundreds I was able to showcase doing that on a year-on-year basis which I wasn’t able to showcase in my first year. Still I was getting blocked.

    and all the red flags around my marriage, his poverty, the likelihood that he wouldn’t want to stay in the UK, all of that. Those red flags acted as a energy to make sure, to help me make sure that our start would be the greatest it could possibly be. So I was in my apartment, the pandemic hit, and the first thing I thought was

    how to make the best of the situation. The Monday, the Thursday before the Monday we were told to stay home and not return to work and work from home. I had an offer on my apartment that I had up for sale for about six months beforehand. And I decided, because I read my astrological chart, I decided, it said I would be working from home anyway. I had no idea what that would mean in real terms.

    In fact the job I was in when it was advertised I was told by the agency that they were looking to split the working week so that employees could work from home but by September of 2019 the employers had decided that the pilot for working from home didn’t work out. Yeah I know interestingly by March we could all work from home that’s another story.

    So I was reading my chart to say that, which told me I’ll be working from home and I couldn’t see how this would work. But come the pandemic, here I was working from home. And I took a leap of faith and decided I have a husband. Let me use my equity from my apartment and find any house, ideally three bedroom, that we could move to. And because I had company, I could really go anywhere.

    I’d spent 11 years and a bit in Royal Tombridge Wells, very alone. And when people asked me, and truly, I really liked the area, I liked the aesthetics, I liked the walking routes, my apartment was beautiful, everything was nice.

    the undertone, not so much so.

    I slept there very well, but it was quite a lonely time and I did not realise how lonely I was until I reconnected with the man I decided would be my husband, following his tales.

    So I was free up having a job to work from home full time at the time, know, pandemic March, no one knew what tomorrow would bring. And I was very fortunate to be in a role. Some people were on furlough. Some didn’t even have, if you remember those early weeks, we didn’t even know about furlough. think furlough must have come in end of March, April. Some people really did just lose their jobs, sat waiting to be called back to their.

    working environments.

    But throughout all the red flags and all the people that would say now I told you so, if I did not have my husband in place in the circumstances as they were, I don’t know if I would have been as ambitious enough or…

    as focused as I was in those days. Because I already had it in mind that people were telling me that it was going to fail. They were commenting on his poverty. I was poor. Yes, I worked. I had a mortgage, but no job, no mortgage, no house, literally.

    So whereas he had and still has a house, no mortgage to pay, no rent to pay, owns that right, in my opinion, he’s richer than I am.

    But reflecting back at that time, I was so adamant that I didn’t want to lose what I had built up. I looked for a home and found it within, it must have been a couple of weeks because by April I had found this house and I thought I was going to be moving by the end of April. But because of the pandemic, solicitors had us delayed until the September of 2020.

    but the bio was in place, I was ready, everything was ready, we were just waiting for solicitance.

    So in truth, had I not had this idea that I was setting up a home for myself and my husband, who knows if I would be here now. It was a risky move. I saw my home online. I didn’t actually see my home in person until the day of exchange, the day when I sold my apartment and bought this house.

    I’ve also reflected whilst I was in Royal Tumbewich Wells, I went to the &S there and there was this woman, know, the sales people that give you little tasters as they do and she offered me a taster and I heard her accent and I knew immediately that she was from London. I was born in Hackney, I had schooled in West London and I think she was from Croydon, that’s right.

    and I heard her accidently immediately we connected. White woman, she was probably about 40 ish and she asked, you know, how are you finding it here? These are my words because I can’t remember verbatim what she said, but I’ll give you the message. And I said, you know, it’s fine. It’s my first purchase and I like the walks in the area and so and then she opened up to me to say.

    She missed London, she couldn’t afford to buy in London. I think that was the conversation. Neither of us could afford to purchase in London. She moved to Crowborough. She said when she moved in, her neighbours basically blanked her. She’d say hello, they’d ignore her. She started going to, I think it was a Pilates class and a couple of women she managed to speak to outside, they welcomed her. But finally she’d go to the class and then people just wouldn’t talk to her.

    And I thought, wow. See, as a black woman in Royal Tumbidge Wells, I often pass people, said hello, said good morning, and most people would have a little chitchat and so mostly they wanted to know if I was a nurse, if I was a teacher, all of that. Couldn’t imagine a white woman going to an area and being ignored because she was a Londoner. I found we had more in common.

    more to connect than our respective environments that we’re living in. As my family would say, it just goes to show.

    This thing is not about race, actually, our colour. And when we start being honest about time and season, about our paths, we will come to understand there’s more things on a different level that we need to focus on for our mental freedom, physical freedom, spiritual freedom, creative freedom.

    Until we do, we’re going to continually come across those that attempt to block us, stop us from expressing ourselves, stop us from attempting to be the best version of ourselves.

    also understand the importance of sticking to what our inner self desires. Because had I thought about racism each and every time I moved, in the many times I moved since leaving home at the age of 17, my goodness, I wouldn’t have housing. I do remember many a time being admonished by my

    male cousins as to locations I’d chosen to live and I chose them because of budget, looking at the train line and so I’ve lived in Plumstead, Woodwich where of course young Stephen Lawrence lost his life and I’ve always caused worry and the stance has always been ⁓ it’s because you’re a woman that’s why you’re able to do that even moving into Royal Tumbrish Wells

    One of my couple, a couple of them actually, but one of them in particular had a conversation with me. And the stance was, ⁓ it’s because you have a vagina. That’s how you’re able to live there and no one bothers you. It wasn’t that no one bothered me, but it was always on the undercurrent. Always on the undercurrent. But their blockages didn’t stop me. I’m here in a little village in a house. I have been

    going through a bit of isolation but I do have a couple of neighbours that do check on me, neighbours that have become friends.

    time and season. Well this is the clarification segment. What can I tell you? I would like to say

    even in those moments where life has felt as if it’s broken, that I’m failing like anything other, or I’m stuck.

    When I get past that moment.

    what remains I can often honestly say I am amazed.

    Sometimes, if not all the time, we do need to go through the mud, the muddle, the confusion, the embarrassment even, the rejection, all of it, to get to this stage, to look back and realise what is for us and what is not for us. And it’s not about governments, it’s not about…

    Our parents is not about our siblings, our cousins also. But we need to have a bit of.

    energy, be brave to do something that’s different.

    Thank you for joining me. My conversations with myself, I would say often, maybe they don’t necessarily make sense, but when you reflect back, you’ll notice that my thoughts often connect and connect to each other. The message being the same. Sovereignty is important. Tap into your time, tap into your season.

    Thank you for joining me. You’ve been with Lita goddess of growth. Have a good day.

    Embracing Growth and Self-Expression

    Introduction

    In a world where personal growth and self-expression are often overshadowed by societal expectations, Lita, the “goddess of growth,” shares her journey of embracing individuality and finding clarity in life’s complexities. Through her podcast, she explores the importance of understanding one’s path and the power of self-expression.

    The Struggle with Podcasting

    Podcasting is a medium Lita enjoys, yet she finds herself struggling with capturing her thoughts in a way that feels authentic. She shares her journey of moving away from scripted material and embracing a more spontaneous approach, allowing her true self to shine through.

    The Complexity of Equality

    Lita delves into the complexities of equality and diversity, highlighting the covert behaviors and tokenism that often accompany legislative efforts. She emphasizes the need for genuine efforts in creating a truly diverse and equal society, where self-expression is encouraged and valued.

    Reflections on Personal Journeys

    Reflecting on her own experiences, Lita discusses the importance of understanding one’s time and season. She shares her insights on the challenges and growth that come with embracing one’s unique journey, encouraging others to find clarity and purpose in their own lives.

    Conclusion

    Lita’s journey is a testament to the power of self-expression and the importance of understanding one’s path. By embracing her individuality and sharing her experiences, she inspires others to do the same, fostering a community of growth and empowerment.

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    At 51, I am finding that my brain processes the world in a “muddled” but deeply connected way. I have decided to lean into this by launching the Clarification Chamber™—a space where I talk through the dots of life until they connect into a clear picture of how our systems truly work.

    The Silence of the Gatekeepers

    I recently reflected on a hairdresser I visited in my 30s. I sat in her chair and watched her give beautiful, life-changing advice to a young model—guiding her on men, money, and property. Yet, when I shared my aspirations of buying a home while working for the NHS, she went silent. No guidance. No tips. Just the clinical process of hair care.

    This silence is something many of us face in the workplace. We see it in the “Diversity and Equality” schemes that are currently being scaled back worldwide. In my view, these schemes often encourage covert behaviour and tokenismrather than true change.

    Legislation can force a company to look diverse, but it cannot force a heart to be open. We still see a “flat-line” for many people of colour and women, where the ratio of diversity at the bottom never matches the pyramid’s peak.

    The Training Ground: From Home to Office

    We are often told that the workplace is where the “bullying” or “blocks” begin. However, if we are honest, our parents and the school system are the primary training grounds.

    • The Family Dynamic: Scapegoating and preferential treatment at home prepare us for the “overseers” we meet in corporations.
    • The Systemic Loop: We are trained to listen and follow a structure that was never designed for our freedom.

    I remember an interview for a PA role in my 20s where the director and his wife spoke over me as if I were a secret joke. I never heard from that agency again. I’ve heard managers shout that they “don’t want any Leroys” in the company. These aren’t just stories; they are the “locks on the track” that we are told to ignore.

    Time, Season, and the Sovereign Pivot

    The missing part of our education is the understanding of Time and Season. We are all on different channels. When I bought my home in Royal Tunbridge Wells during the pandemic, it was a leap of faith guided by my own astrological chart and a desire to stop being lonely.

    I ignored the red flags others pointed out because I was focused on my internal season. I found that even a white woman from London felt “blocked” and ignored in certain areas. It proved to me that the struggle for mental and creative freedom is a universal human experience that transcends the boxes society puts us in.

    Living Wage vs. The Minimum Wage

    Why are we okay with a business model that views employees as “cheap commodities”?

    “The minimum wage is not a living wage. If an employee remains in poverty, they cannot represent the sovereignty of the company they work for.” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    We are nothing more than “indentured slaves” if we cannot feed ourselves or build a legacy. True sovereignty means moving past the “permission” of an employer. Like the cleaner who worked two jobs for 16 years only to be sacked, we must realize that our skills are often better used building our own empires than propping up someone else’s.

    Join the Conversation

    This Clarification Chamber™ is here to help you map your own journey. We must be brave enough to go through the mud and the embarrassment to find what is truly for us.

    Sovereignty is your right. Tap into your season.

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  • Digital De-cluttering. Lita, Goddess of Growth

    Digital De-cluttering

    Digital De-cluttering: Freeing Your Energy for Growth

    Welcome back to Empowerment Diaries®. I am Lita, Goddess of Growth, and today I am reflecting on the weight of accumulation. As I reach age 50, I am becoming acutely aware of duplicity in my life—the items bought and never opened, and the digital files that occupy expensive cloud storage. To move forward into a new season, we must master the art of Digital De-cluttering.

    The Burden of Physical and Digital Hoarding

    We often collect items with great joy, only for them to sit and wait for a move that never comes. My “season of drought” from 2022 until July 2025 taught me to “make do,” yet I still find myself surrounded by objects.

    This extends to our online lives. We pay for extra storage to keep photos and documents we rarely revisit, fearing that if we stop paying, we lose our history. In my journey through social media, I accumulated countless videos, screenshots, and lighting equipment. Now, in my departure from those platforms, I see how much of it has become “clutter” that obscures my path toward full-time self-employment.

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    Welcome, this is Lita, Goddess of Growth. This session is talking about clutter. I am noticing the duplicity, the duplication. 50, there are things that I’ve accumulated over the years, some of them still new in packaging actually.

    and with people around me with ill health, unfortunately, you know, going through the natural cycles of life and even with the idea of maybe one day being a digital nomad, being able to travel to anywhere in the world to work.

    One thinks about the items in their household, what gets left, what gets sold, what gets given away and questions why wait until the moment that we are moving. There’s so many things that we have around us that maybe we could consider if they are needed in our lives now.

    It’s interesting how much energy and joy one has when we want to get a thing and then we have it and then it’s on to the next one. My season of drought was from 2022 until July of this year, 25, and I really had the universe, I suppose, guiding me to make do.

    And even in making do I found I had a lot of things that was just there I wasn’t actually using. I still have them.

    And then there’s my digital presence. I have a number of accounts collecting photos and documents. Every so often they tell me that the space has filled up. I pay a little bit more to keep them knowing full well as soon as I stop paying, I’ve lost my material.

    There was a time I would put a lot of data on dongles and then I found that the dongles ended up getting corrupt. I think they age, do they not, due to temperature and so I have heard a good way to keep photos, videos and so is to actually get a hard drive of sorts and keep data there.

    But when you’re thinking about the end of times, and I do think of it at times, there’s nothing that I will be taking with me, really.

    What is it that we actually really fully need? I enjoy being in a space of my own. I like to have a space where I can get some mental clarity. I like to have the freedom of being without having to respond to anyone speaking to me at times.

    Yes I am a social being but I also really enjoy my quiet time and my alone time. to have a space I can call my own and just be is really important to me. For everyone it’s different. Some people like to be in environments where there’s a cafe just up the road so that they all have always somewhere to go and sit and watch the world.

    things. I think as we age we notice more and more things. I successfully avoided in most instances ⁓

    the habit of having ornaments around my home. There are places where I have a couple of things, but not to the extent as I used to see as a child. I don’t know if you’re listening and you remember the 70s, 80s, every single table, window, you know, had something. And as a child, when I was responsible for using the chamois and the pledge and the window lean to dust these items off,

    liquid to wash them and so forth it was one thing I vowed even then I would not be doing ornaments actually but even without ornaments I started on social media I started getting lighting this and that and it’s it has not escaped my attention that I have items that often just steer at me

    and it does get to a point where you feel as if you’re hoarding.

    because even with social media you go through seasons there’ll be times when you might want to use a backdrop you may want to use a certain kind of lighting a certain phone things are moving so quickly and we’re all trying to find our way and then you get these pieces of equipment that you just have to have because this was in trend this is going to help you do better software packages to help you do a great post or so and

    in my departure from social media which took place by beginning of July say I find myself with quite a lot of stuff quite a lot of stuff which just now needs to go away I am going to return to social media and I think it would be an interesting experience when I do

    At the moment I am building my foundation for my creator network, spending quite a lot of time building my website, doing some blogging and just really

    building my presence online I’m learning a lot more about search engine optimization I’m looking into the affiliate market and loads of things because I realized when I was on social media that base and that connection wasn’t there it was like the carts coming before the horse really and now I’ve had to roll back and build from the bottom up

    and in building from the bottom up I’m noticing more and more stuff.

    So I suppose the task forward is to really curate what it is I’m going to need probably for another six months or so.

    technology is always changing, social media is always changing, some things stay the same but the majority of it is change and some way somehow I also need to take time and start or shall I say continue deleting all these

    photos and videos that I’ve accumulated especially since 2022 when I started my social media journey going online five six days a week. It’s a lot. It is worth doing. There’s a few videos that I have come across and I could see my own development from beginning to end. Doesn’t justify me keeping the videos though.

    So how much are you keeping as clutter? And we are talking about photos, screenshots, videos, household items, clothing, makeup.

    maybe it’s time for me, for you, for us to start letting some things go if we’re looking to free up our lives so that we can be in the best position so that any travel opportunities arrive we’re able to just get up and go. Let me know your thoughts.

    you join me you’ve been with Lita Goddess of Growth please do check out the links down below and I’d love to have and hear a comment from you thank you for joining me have a good one

    ## Summary

    In this episode, Lita, the Goddess of Growth, explores the themes of decluttering, personal growth, and digital minimalism. She shares her journey of letting go of physical and digital clutter, emphasizing the importance of curating what truly matters in life. Lita discusses the emotional and practical aspects of decluttering, offering insights into how simplifying one’s environment can lead to greater freedom and clarity.

    Keywords

    decluttering, personal growth, digital minimalism, freedom, clarity

    Takeaways

    • Consider if items are needed in your life now.
    • Accumulating things can lead to a feeling of hoarding.
    • Curate what you need for the next six months.
    • Digital clutter is as impactful as physical clutter.
    • Letting go of clutter can lead to mental clarity.
    • Simplifying life can prepare you for new opportunities.
    • Reflect on what truly matters in your life.
    • Decluttering is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
    • Embrace the freedom that comes with less.
    • Focus on personal growth through minimalism.

    Title Options

    • Letting Go of Clutter
    • Embracing Minimalism
    • The Freedom of Less
    • Declutter Your Life
    • Digital Minimalism
    • Simplify for Clarity
    • Curate Your Essentials
    • The Art of Letting Go
    • Finding Freedom in Simplicity
    • Personal Growth Through Decluttering

    Sound bites

    Letting go of clutter The freedom of less Curate your essentials Digital clutter impacts us Embrace minimalism Simplify for clarity Focus on personal growth Reflect on what matters Ongoing decluttering process Freedom with less

    Chapters

    • 00:00:00 Introduction to Decluttering
    • 00:00:57 Accumulation and Hoarding
    • 00:01:36 Digital Clutter
    • 00:04:58 Curating Essentials
    • 00:06:54 Embracing Minimalism

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    Embracing Minimalism: The Journey to Letting Go

    In a world filled with endless distractions and material possessions, the art of decluttering has become a beacon of clarity and freedom. As Lita, the Goddess of Growth, reflects on her journey, she invites us to consider the weight of our accumulated belongings. “There are things that I’ve accumulated over the years, some still new in packaging,” she shares, highlighting the duplicity of our desires and the reality of our needs.

    The Digital Dilemma

    Our digital lives mirror our physical spaces, often cluttered with photos, documents, and memories stored in the cloud. Lita’s experience with digital clutter resonates with many of us who pay for extra storage, only to realize the impermanence of digital possessions. “Every so often they tell me that the space has filled up,” she notes, reminding us of the importance of curating our digital presence.

    Finding Freedom in Simplicity

    The journey to minimalism is not just about reducing physical items but also about finding mental clarity. Lita emphasizes the joy of having a space to call her own, free from the noise of the world. “I enjoy being in a space of my own,” she says, encouraging us to create environments that nurture our well-being.

    A Call to Action

    As we navigate the complexities of modern life, Lita’s message is clear: it’s time to let go. Whether it’s photos, household items, or digital files, releasing what no longer serves us opens the door to new opportunities. “Maybe it’s time for me, for you, for us to start letting some things go,” she suggests, inviting us to embrace a life of simplicity and intentionality.

    Conclusion

    The path to minimalism is deeply personal, yet universally liberating. By shedding the excess, we make room for what truly matters. Join Lita on this transformative journey and discover the freedom that comes with letting go.

    Subscribe now to follow more of Lita’s insights and embark on your own journey of growth and decluttering.

    Digital De-cluttering: Freeing Your Energy in the Digital Age

    In an era where our lives are increasingly intertwined with technology, digital clutter can silently drain our energy and focus. Lita, the Goddess of Growth, shares her insights on the importance of digital de-cluttering, a practice that can lead to greater clarity and freedom. “I have a number of accounts collecting photos and documents,” she reflects, highlighting the often-overlooked burden of digital accumulation.

    The Hidden Costs of Digital Clutter

    Digital clutter isn’t just about storage space; it’s about the mental load of managing countless files, emails, and notifications. Lita’s experience serves as a reminder that our digital lives need regular tidying. “Every so often they tell me that the space has filled up,” she notes, urging us to evaluate what truly needs to be kept.

    Steps to Digital Freedom

    The journey to digital de-cluttering begins with intentionality. Lita emphasizes the importance of curating our digital spaces to align with our values and goals. “Letting go of clutter can lead to mental clarity,” she says, encouraging us to delete what no longer serves us and organize what remains.

    A Call to Action

    As we strive for balance in a digital world, Lita’s message is clear: it’s time to de-clutter. Whether it’s old emails, unused apps, or redundant files, releasing digital clutter opens the door to new opportunities and frees our energy. “Maybe it’s time for me, for you, for us to start letting some things go,” she suggests, inviting us to embrace a life of simplicity and intentionality.

    Conclusion

    Digital de-cluttering is not just a task; it’s a journey towards a more focused and fulfilling life. By shedding the digital excess, we make room for what truly matters. Join Lita on this transformative journey and discover the freedom that comes with a streamlined digital life.

    Subscribe now to follow more of Lita’s insights and embark on your own journey of digital de-cluttering.

    Building from the Bottom Up

    I have realised that on social media, I often put the cart before the horse. Now, I am rolling back to build a solid foundation from the bottom up. This involves:

    • Curating Resources: Identifying what technology and equipment are actually needed for the next six months.
    • SEO Mastery: Learning search engine optimisation and affiliate marketing to ensure Goddess of Growth stands on its own.
    • Intentional Deleting: Removing old videos and data that no longer serve the current vision of House of Sovren™.

    “How much are you keeping as clutter? It is time to start letting things go to free up our lives, so that when travel opportunities arrive, we are able to just get up and go.” — Lita, Goddess of Growth

    The Freedom of Mental Clarity

    Digital De-cluttering is about more than just freeing up gigabytes; it is about reclaiming mental clarity. I value my quiet time and the freedom of being in a space of my own without distraction. By clearing away the digital and physical noise, we create room for new artistry and Strategic Transformation.

    As I continue building Sovren Creator Network Guild™, my focus is on quality over quantity. I am deleting the old to make way for the new.

    Are you currently holding onto “digital ornaments” that no longer add value to your life? I invite you to join me in this process of letting go. Connect with Goddess of Growth below and share your tips for clearing space for what truly matters.

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    Power of Rewriting Your Story: From Stiff Upper Lip to Sovereign Self

    Empower Your Story: How to Revisit the Past and Free Your Future

    Hello, beautiful soul. Welcome back to Empowerment Diaries® where we focus on Stories That Free Us. In this episode, we are looking at the power of rewriting our story—revisiting the past so that we can have a freer future.

    Is your story acting like an anchor? Lita Goddess of Growth explores cultural narratives and her transition to the Creator Economy to help you Empower Your Story.

    As we age, we become more aware that the present is all we truly have. Having the courage to revisit your story without allowing it to bring you down is the ultimate victory for your mind and soul. What if the stories you carry—about your past, your culture, or your capabilities—are the very things keeping you from the support and connection you deserve?

    In this heartfelt and reflective conversation, I explore the profound courage it takes to revisit and rewrite our personal narratives. We go beyond the “stiff upper lip” and examine how inherited stoicism can manifest as physical and emotional ailment, blocking us from the collaborative, supportive flow of life.

    Empower Your Story: A Year of Monumental Change

    This episode is a personal reflection from a year of transition. As I build my career as a Creator Network Manager, take on an overgrown allotment against all odds, and learn to receive help from unexpected places, a central theme has emerged: our greatest growth happens not in isolation, but in connection.

    In this conversation, I dive deep into:

    • ‘Stiff Upper Lip’ Narrative: Challenging the unspoken rules about struggle, silence, and shame within British and Jamaican heritage, and how these cultural instructions can lead to physical and mental ailments.
    • A Shift in Career: My transition to becoming a Creator Network Manager and how my own story of survival evolved into an opportunity to thrive in the creator economy.
    • Allotment Lesson: A personal story of how the universe provided support exactly when I was ready to give up on my new plot of land—a reminder that help often comes from unexpected places.
    • Best Currency: Why connection and collaboration are more valuable than any financial resource in our current 2026 climate.
    • Practical First Steps: Moving from traumatic, stuck-record repetition to empowered rewriting through journaling, therapy, and the courageous questioning of: “Is it true?”

    Revisiting your story isn’t about dwelling on the past; it’s about addressing the narrative so you can reclaim your power and listen to your own soul force. Whether through Emotional Freedom Techniques, astrology, or simple honesty, you have the ability to free your future from the weight of the past.

    This is an invitation to examine the story you’re living by. Are you ready to write a new one and truly Empower Your Story?

    Listen to the full episode below. You can also read the full transcript of this story in the accordion section following the audio.

    Lita (00:00)
    Hello, this is Lita here Goddess of Growth here to do another episode of Empowerment Diaries. Today we’re looking at the power of rewriting our story, revisiting the past so that we can have a freer future. Being in the present and being free is very much a

    great victory also. And ultimately as we age, present is all we have. Present is all we have throughout all of our lives. But as we age, we become more aware of time and space. Having the courage to revisit our story without allowing it to bring us down is really key.

    to freeing our minds and freeing our soul and maybe if you have the opportunity to speak to the characters that were involved in your story taking that opportunity now might be the key to freeing not just your mind but your path. In the UK we do have

    the thoughts of having what they call a stiff upper lip or the phrase keep calm and carry on. I am of British-born Jamaican heritage and it is the case that we are often encouraged to be like comedians in the workspace. One would speak the best English possible when we’re in our community.

    tapping into patois. We adapt ourselves, we’re like the natural multilingual or bilingual ⁓ people in the society that we are in the UK. But either way, whichever culture you are from, there’s often this hidden instruction

    that whatever you’re going through needs to be kept quiet and people generally shouldn’t know about it. Maybe because there’s issues connected to shame, maybe because the issues are directly linked to your immediate family. And of course, from young age to old age, we have things like social media now.

    that could have a huge effect on our life chances especially when we’re thinking about work, growth, career and so forth. But truly the stiff upper lip in my opinion can lead to a lot of ailments not just mentally, physically too.

    There’s something about just holding on to something that feels uncomfortable no matter what is going on that really doesn’t fully resonate and our bodies start to rebel. Previously I’ve gone through my

    modality of choice for therapy, emotional freedom techniques which is a really great tool to continually help tapping into how we’re feeling right now, it doesn’t dismiss how we feel it connects with it and just asks us to just check in as to if what we’re feeling is rooted into the truth or not and even if it is rooted in the truth the question still is the case where it remains

    to be asked even if it’s true is there anything that you can do about it right now and often when you ask anyone how they are they spend a bit of time thinking about what just happened or moments before or weeks before or years before or maybe how they’d like to feel in the future

    very few tap into this moment and in this very moment this might be the very moment that we actually feel okay. We’re comfortable, we can breathe, nothing is in mind, we can relax. In this moment we are often okay.

    There is a difference between accepting the past and being stuck in it and I do know through my own journey of life of being in that repetition, repetition, repetition and freeing myself from it to the point where it’s quite a lot of energy for me now to talk about the past, childhood and so.

    However, the universe has a way of bringing our past to us in increments for us to deal with it and it does happen in the strangest ways.

    So personally I have been transitioning my career. I recently took on a post as a creator network manager through a social media platform TikTok.

    And my task is to talent manage and grow a productive and successful live agency, basically working with creators to encourage them to host successful live streams on TikTok.

    Now for those that know me, I have actually been transitioning my career for the last two, almost two and a half years now. Finance has disappeared, the old way was no longer working, so I had to find ways to promote my consultancy, my hypnotherapy, my coaching.

    I decided and was encouraged to join TikTok as the up and coming growing modality to grow in social media on social media and somehow I ended up going to LifeStream with a view of promoting my business. Well life doesn’t often go in a straight line does it?

    instead of just doing my business I did get involved with other things shoppable content, networking. I managed to host just a couple subscriptions where I was able to provide coaching, nothing significant.

    So roll forward to 2025 being given this opportunity, offer this opportunity to run my very own creator network. I do believe it is the great opportunity to share all the experiences that I have accumulated on the platform and off the platform for growth.

    It’s given me an opportunity to do what I enjoy, which is coaching. And those that I coach will not need to pay me a thing because the platform will be able to pay me according to what is earned going live stream. It does not come out of the creator’s income. It is something that is paid directly from the platform to the creator network. Stories.

    The interesting thing is for a while I felt as if the

    platform had actually stopped my work from going out, from being seen, but evidently something was being seen.

    and I find myself in this space now changing careers of sorts and having to believe in my ability not just to coach but to also succeed at yet another new business.

    stories.

    I’ve recently this year around April received a plot on an allotment to look after all on my own.

    In fact when I registered my details in 2020 I was told it would be likely that I wouldn’t get it because there was a 10 year waiting list. Lo and behold five years later almost the plot was offered to me and I’m telling you it has been work.

    and I woke up one morning quite frustrated and I was saying to the universe why have you given this plot to me and I do not have the resources the finances the time whatever it takes to get the plot how I would like it to be to make it viable it really doesn’t make sense by day end I had

    a few resolutions about the plot. I was able to go and pick some fruit. Fruit has actually ripened much earlier than expected this year. They’re very much in season. I was expecting the currants and so raspberries to be ready by end of June July but they’re ready. Anyhow in going to the plot

    I met a couple that have a space there and apparently the team of them had spoken and they were thinking of offering their time to assist me in clearing the plot. Apparently the plot had become overrun over two years and they felt it was a bit unfair to give me the plot to take on with so much work needing to be done.

    So there we have the universe, even before I started complaining to the universe, working out a solution for me so that I will be able to move forward and create a space on the land, on the plot, where it will be something that I’ll be able to use it gracefully, usefully, productively.

    That has been the theme of my life really over the last two and a half years. Help and support has come from unexpected places and part of me, and this is the story I tell myself, has been a bit annoyed that all the work that I’ve been doing I have not been able to cover myself.

    on my own given all the hours and time spent so there is a bit of annoyance about that for sure but looking at all the angels and the support that I’ve received over the last two and a half years I do believe life is really truly amazing. It’s as if I am being reminded that actually when support is needed and I’m on the right path

    support will be provided, but without opening my mind and challenging my ideas on help and support it can often seem quite difficult even to ask for help or receive help.

    A lot of our ideas about receiving assistance, whether it be loans, whether it be assistance putting up a frame in the house, help with a garden, help cooking a meal. A lot of those ideas we take on from our parents and our ancestors, environment.

    and sometimes spirit does remind us that actually this life that we’re living it isn’t a solitary affair it is one that is very much reliant on connections and collaboration even those that choose to live off-grid they rely on others collecting foods

    presenting spaces that they themselves can use whether or not they pay for it.

    One of our challenges is to tap into our sense of guilt, our sense of shame for asking for assistance or needing assistance. The fact of the matter is the majority of the population, and if this is a fact, they would not survive if they did not have support.

    I would say all and everyone that we meet needed some level of support and still need support to be able to live the life that we’re whether we admit it or not. And today, 2025, more people have become aware of their need for support. The cost of living crisis.

    There’s definitely anxiety. All I keep hearing from others is I speak to clients and so, ⁓ dear, the costs just keep going up and up and up. And sometimes we can look at the costs without looking at the rest of the picture. We are being tasked, we are being asked to connect, to partner, to collaborate. ⁓

    This is the trajectory, this is what we are being tasked by spirit to do, to come together, to identify our strengths and connect it, balance out our weaknesses by coming together with others that will balance out our weaknesses, complement our strengths. We’re now looking at our personal identity in a whole new way.

    and we’re thinking about our personal identity, we understand resources in our hands aren’t the only influence. The best currency at this time, especially when you’re thinking about social media, even stocks and shares, the best currency at this time is really your connection to people that you know. ⁓

    So when you’re assessing your story, maybe now is the time to start looking at how much time you’re taking and putting aside to nurture relationships. And I’m not talking about the relationships you’ve had since childhood that never change. We are growing and as we are growing, we are evolving and we all need to have relationships that reflect our growth.

    whether they be challenging or otherwise. As we grow, the majority of the people around us will change. Are you open to that change? If not, why not?

    Now I know there’s a number of people that like to consider the English language and there’s this idea if you change the meaning of certain words to positive then life will be positive and so I challenge you to question that part of the story.

    Ultimately it’s not so much what we think but what we feel about our story. We can change all the words, we can change the identities, it doesn’t take away the nuance, it doesn’t take away the feeling or does it?

    We are taught often to be polite and I suspect this idea of changing words makes us feel as if we’ve got more control over circumstances. But when we are challenged, that emotion, that feeling that prevents us from looking at the bigger picture is what comes forward. We are challenged to look at our story on a micro level

    through family and friend lens but let’s not forget what we are seeing in our immediate circle is often replicated in the world at large.

    It is so easy when we hear something on the news to say them they. And often we do not acknowledge that the same behaviour we are seeing on the news is the same behaviour that’s happening in our household, our family unit, our friend connection.

    and this is often the case until we start identifying and tapping into our story to really zone in to what is true. As we confront our story, the characters change, the life experience change, we no longer need those mirrors to come back to us to show us places in our life that needs healing because that’s all it is really, a lifetime of being challenged with different scenarios

    different stories to check into our values and return us back to love and connection with ourselves first and each other. Can we truly free ourselves without understanding our story and what it is that we have tapped into and used to encourage levels of oppression even.

    This word trauma gets bounded around quite frequently these days and yes there’s loads of traumatic events. The fact of the matter is it affects us all differently. It’s all about what story we are running at the time when the so-called traumatic event happens.

    9 11 I was in Barbados at the time I’d gone to a beach and in fact I had observed the planes going into the buildings I thought I was watching a movie even I remember the flight home to the UK it being so surreal that I remember them being worried about giving us water you know liquids and so forth

    That was my story, it wasn’t traumatic at all. I was on the beach and I found out and I remember going home to my sisters and questioned if they’d heard about it. We don’t generally watch the news when we’re abroad. We turned on the television and was like, wow. Years later, I heard how my sister who was in the UK had experienced the whole scenario.

    And for the first time I was challenged to empathise with those that were in the UK hearing about what had happened. Offices had closed down in London, the whole of London was under, in a panic. Businesses, government offices were closed, people had to walk rather than take the bus home.

    lots of first security measures were put in place almost I suppose the measures that they would put in place at wartime it’s not a memory I have because I did not go through it but there’s so many more that would have gone through at that time and isn’t it interesting a lot of us in the UK will talk about 9-11

    We often do not remember the big events that happened in the UK where we had bombings here as well, even though I know older colleagues were personally affected.

    So stories are there to challenge us, wake us up and to connect in. Check in to how we are connected to any given scenario and each other.

    and until we take that time to question the story, think about the global environment at the time, think about the emotion, who was around, what actually happened and if you can go back to ask questions until we do that, it’s hard to be free. And when I talk about addressing the story I don’t mean that traumatic repetition of things that happened years ago.

    because I know we’ve all done that or the majority of us have and made little progress. So this is about rewriting the narrative, addressing the narrative and being in a position to rewrite it. So I’ve mentioned before journaling, writing the story, being prepared to spend some time, get a book, get a pen and write.

    when you’re ready you could reread it, you can keep it for a while and then tear the pages and burn it, not before of course you check in, was it true? And if it’s true what does it mean for you? Therapy is also an option whether it be hypnotherapy or if you want to go for counselling, we are our story.

    what we think about ourselves resonates out into the world and from personal experience sitting and talking to friends and family may not always be healing. There are friends and families that will often appease or try to soothe.

    As you age you come to realise there will be many people that sit and talk with us, with you, and you will think that they fully understand you and they’re on the same page, they get it. And actually when you readdress the situation years later you will find nothing could be further from the truth actually.

    there was no agreement, we learned that actually someone’s silence whilst they listen is not a sign they agree with you at all, they’re just giving you that space to communicate. You might feel really connected, finally someone listens and someone understands, but truly according to my own personal experience…

    it’s the case that very few people fully resonate with the experience that you’re going through, very few. Some of us are blessed, I have been very blessed, aunts and so that have been able to not just witness my story but also reaffirm my story. Unfortunately not many people have that.

    So taking time out to go and see a therapist, a counsellor, someone outside of your network so that you can just speak and get it out of your system is helpful too. But don’t stay long in that space. Honesty is important too. You need to be prepared to ask questions.

    Coaching is the tool that can start asking you questions. Yes, so that happened and that happened and that happened. It’s 10 years now. How is it affecting you today? Is that by choice?

    What’s the benefit of you holding onto that opinion, that story today? What are you getting out of it? Is this the time now to let go of your old story? At what point will be the right time?

    What do you lose by letting your story go? What do you gain by letting your story go?

    Culture can play a significant factor as into how we hold on to our story. There’s some kind of honour and medal, one would say, especially if you’re coming from Caribbean roots, to have been raised in a family where corporal punishment was used and you were able to survive it somehow.

    It’s almost seen as you’re a weaker minded individual if you were even to dare to think, to talk about it being something that affected you mentally, emotionally or otherwise.

    taking that decision and step to review your story and heal your story, distance yourself from your story and maybe do something different with the next generation, your children, your nieces, your nephews, your connections, that decision could actually distance you from your culture.

    because here you are taking your story and healing it affecting your ancestors, your previous generations and generations to come.

    not everybody has the energy or the mindset to do that work but that is work that a select few will do.

    It’s about acknowledging that our identities can be very present regardless of what we’ve been through. In spite of what we’ve been through.

    So today I am reflecting on our story and what is it that we need to do to really just check into our narrative, the small steps that we’re able to take and focus on so that we can now take our power back, empower ourselves even if it means rewriting our story.

    question as we come to a close what’s the one story you’ve told yourself that no longer serves you what is the one story you’ve told yourself that no longer serves you when you get familiar with your story

    When others attempt to tell you your story or use your story against you it will not bother you because you’ll understand that there’s a real power in your journey in your story and the lens that you’ve been looking at yourself it just widens.

    opportunities come you’re able to connect more easily with others even without asking it’s like the universe starts putting new experiences newer connections in your life there’s less fear-based focus there’s more love there’s more connection it doesn’t happen overnight it does take an effort it takes an intention

    Start with the journaling, look at your story and be focused on your story. If you’re now ready to empower your life, free your future, free your mind.

    Empowerment Diaries is what you’ve been listening to. This is Lita, Goddess of Growth. Please do remember to connect, do comment below and together we are going to use our stories to heal ourselves and to free our minds, free our lives. Thank you.

    Rewriting Your Story: How to Revisit the Past and Free Your Future

    Hello, beautiful soul. In this episode of Empowerment Diaries®, we are looking at the power of rewriting our story—revisiting the past so that we can have a freer future. As we age, we become more aware that the present is all we truly have. Having the courage to revisit your story without allowing it to bring you down is the ultimate victory for your mind and soul.

    In this conversation, I dive deep into:

    • ‘Stiff Upper Lip’ Narrative: How British and Caribbean cultural instructions to “keep quiet” can lead to physical and mental ailments.
    • A Shift in Career: My transition to becoming a Creator Network Manager and how my own story of survival evolved into an opportunity to thrive.
    • The Allotment Lesson: A personal story of how the universe provided support exactly when I was ready to give up on my new plot of land.
    • The Best Currency: Why connection and collaboration are more valuable than any resource in our current 2026 climate.

    Revisiting your story isn’t about stuck-record repetition; it’s about addressing the narrative so you can reclaim your power. Whether through journaling, therapy, or simply questioning “Is it true?”, you have the ability to free your future from the weight of the past.

    Listen to the full episode below. You can also read the full transcript of this story in the accordion section following the audio.

    Key Themes

    • Rewriting Your Story
    • British Jamaican Heritage
    • Stiff Upper Lip Culture
    • TikTok Creator Network Manager
    • Allotment Stories
    • Freeing the Mind

    Timestamps for Video/Audio

    • 00:00 – Revisit the past to free the future
    • 03:15 – Cultural identities and the “Stiff Upper Lip”
    • 07:40 – My transition to Creator Network Manager
    • 10:50 – The Allotment Miracle: When the universe provides
    • 18:20 – The power of asking for help (Surviving vs. Thriving)

    • • 25:00 – How to start rewriting your narrative today

    Executive Summary

    In this episode of Empowerment Diaries® , Lita, the Goddess of Growth, explores the transformative power of rewriting our personal narratives. She emphasizes the importance of revisiting the past to create a freer future and discusses the role of journaling in this process. Lita shares insights on how addressing and rewriting our stories can empower us to take back control of our lives.

    Keywords

    personal growth, storytelling, cultural norms, community support, emotional healing, career transitions, trauma, empowerment, self-discovery, narrative therapy

    Summary

    In this episode of Empowerment Diaries, Lita, the Goddess of Growth, explores the transformative power of rewriting our personal stories. She emphasizes the importance of revisiting the past to free ourselves for a brighter future, while also addressing the cultural norms that often inhibit personal growth. Lita shares her own journey of career transitions, the unexpected support she received, and the significance of community in personal development. The conversation delves into the emotional weight of our stories, the impact of trauma, and the necessity of seeking external support to heal and empower ourselves. Ultimately, Lita encourages listeners to reflect on their narratives and take steps towards rewriting them for a more fulfilling life.

    Takeaways

    Revisiting our past can lead to a freer future.
    Cultural norms often discourage open expression of struggles.
    Support can come from unexpected places during transitions.
    Our stories shape our identities and experiences.
    Healing our narratives can impact future generations.
    Emotional weight can hinder personal growth.
    Seeking external support is crucial for healing.
    Community plays a vital role in personal development.
    Empowerment comes from understanding and rewriting our stories.
    The present moment is where we can find peace.

    Titles

    Rewriting Your Story for Empowerment
    The Power of Community in Personal Growth

    Sound bites

    “The present is all we have.”
    “We are our story.”
    “What story no longer serves you?”

    Chapters

    00:00 Rewriting Our Story for a Freer Future
    04:59 Navigating Career Transitions and Unexpected Opportunities
    11:31 The Importance of Support and Community
    15:46 Challenging Our Personal Narratives
    21:10 Understanding Trauma and Its Impact
    26:43 Empowering Ourselves Through Storytelling

    This featured podcast was recorded in June 2025 so much as changed since then.Today Lita is CEO of Lita Goddess of Growth Ltd a media company and Sovren Creator Network Guild.

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